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wvmtnkid

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I am in need of some prayer at the moment. I need to tell someone that I care very much about good bye. This has been a real struggle for me in coming to this decision. First I ask that this is the right decision and I am doing the right thing. Second, that God will give me the words and the strength to do this. And lastly, for there to be healing for my heart over this situation.

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Ill pray for you, but please go get some sun! :p

I am not sure who you are saying goodbye to. I had to say goodbye to my best friend of 3 years, because I was going one way with the Lord, and he was going the other way.
It didn't bother me much at all, in fact it bothered me to goto his house, I would get butterflys when I went over there.
I also did something similer with my family, they were just holding me back from the potential that God has for me. But that was something between me and God, and timeing was a key.
I still see them, especially for football but I don't make them my closest circle in my heart. In the 8 months I have noticed alot of positive changes in me.

But I stress again, that was between me and God with timeing. So whoever reads this don't go and do something drastic because you saw it here.
 
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Peace, peace, peace....Father I speak words of PEACE...your peace. I bind all spirits of worry, of self-doubt, and of sadness, that may come against wvmtnkid. Instead I speak spirits of peace, light, love, self-assurance and hope. Thankyou Father, for loving us, we're so unworthy, yet you love us so much that you only want happiness, only want good things for your children. Thankyou Father. Thankyou. Praise your precious name.

 

Keep on keeping on! Your a child of the King! You are precious in his sight, and you will be rewarded someday for all of those things you did that you didn't want to do, but you did because you knew He would have wanted you too! FAITHFUL SERVANT!

 

Lori
 
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Dear Lord, please help wvmtnkid with this task she feels you have given her. She needs to sever relationship with someone she cares for, which is never easy. We assume that she is doing this because she needs to, or because there is some Biblical prohibition to their relationship, or because this relationship is interfering with her walk with you.

She is looking for confirmation that this is the right decision, for the strength to carry it out, and for words that will bring this person closer to you, not push him/her away from you. Please grant this request beyond her own abilities.

She is also seeking healing, and I pray Lord that you will give her the peace that passes understanding that comes from you, Our Comforter.

Amen.
 
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Thanks again, all you wonderful prayer warriors! I am still seeking guidance from the Lord at this stage. One minute I think this is something I should do for my own spiritual and mental health, so that I can get on with my life. The next minute, I am reminded that God brought this special person into my life for a reason and I don't think that reason has been revealed just yet. It may not be the reason I first thought, but nonetheless, He has a purpose. (You would think after a year, I would have some clue, though! lol!)

Thanks again! I am so very thankful that I have you all to come to and ask for prayer. Just know how much I appreciate you all!
 
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Sweetie, "date evangelism" doesn't work, if that's what you're doing. Date evangelism is where you date an unsaved person, hoping that through you, he will get saved and you two will get married. All it really does is give you a broken heart, because you get emotionally attached to him, then have to break up because he isn't a Christian. Really, it's dishonest, because he thinks you love him for himself, but you're really using him to get brownie points from God.

I hope that if you are dating an unsaved person, you will break it off right away without waiting for a "sign from heaven." You've already got your instructions--from the Bible! Don't be unequally yoked with an unbeliever.
 
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Not to worry, he is a Christian, a pretty strong one. It just seems our lives are taking a turn in different directions now and it is sorta hard for me to accept. At one time I thought he was the answer to prayer, and I am just having a hard time accepting that maybe he isn't. I tried to turn some of my feelings off because I would still like for him to remain as a friend in my life, but I just can't seem to do that successfully. It is causing more hurt for me than I care to really even admit to myself right now. So I am trying to decide if I should just gracefully bow out of the situation. And I am struggling to make this decision.

Thanks for the advice, though. I agree with what you said! Unfortunately, I have find that out first hand in the past. Hopefully, I have learned my lesson!
 
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