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Please pray for me. I have continued to struggle with the same cycle of being involved in relationships with individuals that end up abusing me, betraying me and doing things to cause me mental and emotional harm. I have been in both romantic relationships and friendships with individuals like this and I am so tired of it. The mental anguish that these individuals have caused me has taken so long to be healed from. Please pray that I will stop attracting these individuals and please pray for my permanent protection from them. Please also pray over my life spiritually regarding this.
 

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You might want to search on the topic of narcissistic personality disorder. People with that disorder are very common and they enjoy hurting others.

You can get tips on how to spot and avoid such people. And tips on how to deal with them if for some reason you can’t go no contact with them.

On YouTube you will see some videos by psychologists Dr. Les Carter and Dr. Ramini Which might be helpful. But really there are many people who are non-professionals who are sharing and giving good advice in my opinion.

I pray you will be led to people who are good for you and that you will be healed from the abuse you have suffered.
 
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Lifting you up as requested in prayer. Are you dating Christians you meet through your church? There are no guarantees in life, but the odds might be a bit more in your favor if you start with Christians as opposed to secular society. That way, if you have problems, the local Pastor can meet with you and help get things on track.
 
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