My wife knows I have a drinking problem and she really believed I was gonna get it th time. She is in California and i am in Washington while i finisyh school. Well I relapsed a couple days ago and now I think she is gone for good. I peay to good to help me get back on my feet. I ask that she will be there for me even though this is the 6th time I broke this drinking promise. I am going to treatment tommorow I just hope she supports me and doesnt divorce me. i love my wife very much and I could never imagine life without here. I am asking for your prayers. Thank you.
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I wish I could improve your situation for you,but I have done the same thing. Just not that many times. It takes women alot longer to heal then we men would like to see happen. You first have to regain the trust with her. That will come in time if you are going to couseling to get help. You have to remeber to take baby steps to build back broken relationships. Try to diplay yourself in a positive way and be happy to be with her. It will take alot of understanding and giving in your part. Let her come to you, without pressures or obligations from her part. I will pray for your situation and stand beside you.
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Thank you for the good advice, its nice to have someone to talk to that can understand what I am going through. I put it in Gods hand, and I know his will well be done. Thank you again, for the support and good words of advice.
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I cant sleep at all, I miss my wife so much. I feel sick to my stomach, everything reminds me of her. I hope we don't stay separated
long, I cant take it I miss her so much.
long, I cant take it I miss her so much.
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Bro... it's horrible, but sometimes we need these "jolts" to make us really realize what will happen and what we will lose if we don't change. Make sure you get medical help... and see your doctor about depression. There's no reason to try to break this on your own. Get support and stick-with the treatment.
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Things are looking a little better, my wife still doesnt want to talk on the phone, but she texted me. She talked to my aunt last night. She told mt aunt that she loves and misses me very much, but I need to get my head together, but she said she is not divorcing me.
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Catemsumc, this is very good news and a step forward in the marriage restoration. It sounds like that your on track and trying to make the situation better. I will continue to pray that it will get better.
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