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In short: please pray that if a romantic relationship is to be sparked may it happen, but if it is not to be, may I get over her.

I was at one point talking daily with a young woman, with whom I am no longer conversing. I sent her mother an apology over Facebook but it doesn't show she's read it. She's changed her last name (I don't think it was because of me, the timeline is different). Regardless I went to her Facebook page momentarily tonight, but stopped myself because those words weren't meant for me. Please pray that if we are ever to be together again may it happen, but if not may I just get over her. I feel nearly sick thinking of her, but it's a big risk to write her.

Thank you and may all who read this and all who pray for me be blessed.
 

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In short: please pray that if a romantic relationship is to be sparked may it happen, but if it is not to be, may I get over her.

I was at one point talking daily with a young woman, with whom I am no longer conversing. I sent her mother an apology over Facebook but it doesn't show she's read it. She's changed her last name (I don't think it was because of me, the timeline is different). Regardless I went to her Facebook page momentarily tonight, but stopped myself because those words weren't meant for me. Please pray that if we are ever to be together again may it happen, but if not may I just get over her. I feel nearly sick thinking of her, but it's a big risk to write her.

Thank you and may all who read this and all who pray for me be blessed.
Give her space. Pray about it. Is this a lady you have met off-line, or only online?
 
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Ok, brother. I'll pray for you guys. Give her space, offer it up to Christ, and let Christ direct your thoughts towards Him, no matter what. God bless you, friend.
 
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Ok, brother. I'll pray for you guys. Give her space, offer it up to Christ, and let Christ direct your thoughts towards Him, no matter what. God bless you, friend.
Thank you, you too.
 
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Praying the Lord lead you to a relationship which will honor Him and bring you love and peace in Christ Jesus.

When I was a teen a church elder and mentor gave some advice.

He said the number one relationship you have in this life extends to the next. That’s your relationship with God.

The second is marriage.

The second must be in harmony with the first.
 
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In short: please pray that if a romantic relationship is to be sparked may it happen, but if it is not to be, may I get over her.

I was at one point talking daily with a young woman, with whom I am no longer conversing. I sent her mother an apology over Facebook but it doesn't show she's read it. She's changed her last name (I don't think it was because of me, the timeline is different). Regardless I went to her Facebook page momentarily tonight, but stopped myself because those words weren't meant for me. Please pray that if we are ever to be together again may it happen, but if not may I just get over her. I feel nearly sick thinking of her, but it's a big risk to write her.

Thank you and may all who read this and all who pray for me be blessed.
It's good that you're submitting yourself to the Lord's will on this, even though the situation is very painful. I pray that God will clearly direct you and comfort your heart.
 
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