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I forgot how downing trainings can be and I wasnt prepared for all the coments that my body would register as your not good enough. It's put me in a huge slump and I just want to cut even though I have been gud for 71 days. right now giving that up wont bother me as far as I'm concerned I just want some peace of mind.
 
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I really need to cut :cry: I'm so fat
hun, hang in there.
you are NOT fat.
you are beautiful & loved in Gods eyes.
use Gods words to us in the bible to drive the devils negativeness away.
he wants you to fall.
but Gods chearing you on.
He wants you to win this.

your so beautiful, loved & loving.
you dont need to fall now.
Ally xox
 
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I am so bad. I feel like cutting so much right now. no more. not any more... :cry: I won't give in, not this time. Never again. Never.... God please don't let me do this... :cry:
 
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not worth the way i feel afterwards,find courage to overcome and i'm not going to let myself do this today
awesome attitude to have littlenova. :hug: Praying for you. :angel: :hug:
 
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Why bother trying to fight anymore, every time it beats me before I can even get to a 100 days. I just want to cut most days, I find myself falling into habbits that involve me hurting myself discretly at school. Why bother honestly
 
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I can't post why one here it would be to triggering for others but if you want to know check out foxyfan Id's. Its the id I use for venting now since my parents know about the bella id and i cant vent in it anymore.
 
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aaww :hug: sweetheart. learning to vent to parents is quite an art for us all. you have to teach them to listen. it happens to all us teenagers and young adults. the relationship from little kid to dependant and seperate young adult is not snap your fingers like our birthday's. you know, one day you wake up 17. well, the struggle between parent and adult is a growth spurt thing. you learn; you now teach them who you are. they buck, because "they know best"... you feel unheard and little... until finally parents start to understand you really are seperate and discovering your own life. parents care for and have a certain rythym. you are asserting your own rythym. (sorry about my spelling :sorry: ) we learn from lots of people; not just our parents. parents have a tough time seeing all this. you have to teach them what you need. don't give up because it's hard and uncomfy at times. just remember each time you bump heads; you are both trying to figure out what went wrong. both feeling small and failed or unheard. maybe write a letter about it. but bless your hearts. xo i know it's quite a battle with yourself and can be with parents. SI is scary to them. they think "don't do it" is simple. teach them it's not. :hug: need top chat? pm any of the recovery staffers. we'll be happy to encourage you and help you find resources in your area if needed. xo dee
 
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