It is not a "judgment." It is an obvious observation and an admission on their part that they are committing this sin and have no intention to discontinue. Would we say the same thing to serial killers and child rapists? "I realize you are a serial killer, but we accept you into the fold and do not condemn you for your sin; we are sinners too, so have at it. Would you like to be a deacon?"
1 Corinthians 6:9 LITV
9 Or do you not know that unjust ones will not inherit the kingdom of God?
Do not be led astray, neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals,
1 Timothy 1:9-10 LITV
9 knowing this, that Law is not laid down for a righteous one, but for lawless and undisciplined ones,
for ungodly and sinful ones, for unholy and profane ones, for slayers of fathers and slayers of mothers, for murderers,
10 for fornicators, for homosexuals, for slave-traders, for liars, for perjurers, and if any other thing opposes sound doctrine,
We would never pat murderers on the back and tell them it's ok, murdering is ok, don't worry about it, we will not judge you!
We ignore these verses and warnings at our peril. We are not being progressive, compassionate, or understanding when we wink at these. We are leading these lost ones into damnation. When I was saved half a century ago, there were things I was doing that were sins. I even continued in those ways for years! But the Spirit convicted me of these, and I had to stop. I could not continue if I wanted to walk with the Lord. I am talking about occult stuff, sins of the flesh, and pride. But these things have to be shed. And we then do harm when we suggest they can continue on that walk with no concern.
"Unjust ones will not inherit the kingdom of God."