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I know about the passage that Jesus says not to judge the speck in someone else's eye when you have a plank in yours.
I just wonder about the context.
Since we are all sinners and all have our own faults, then technically, we would never be allowed to point out or raise up
any problems and criticisms in others because we have our own faults so who are we to ever criticize or judge someone else's
actions when in our own lives we are no better?
But I don't believe that is what it necessarily means. Agree or disagree? If you are talking about the same issue and you have
your own faults in that issue, then yes, you shouldn't criticize. But if your faults are in a totally different issue, I think it is ok.
Here's an example:
1) If I'm always late to meetings, late to scheduled events and horrible at keeping times, and then when someone else is late,
me pointing that out and criticizing them for their lateness is wrong since I am doing it worse.
2) If I'm always on time and reliable with keeping schedules times/dates and then someone else is not, then I have the right to
point it out and raise up the concern since I am exemplifying a good example even though I have my own faults in say
others issues like not being generous, being stingy, cheap, and let's say I also don't clean up after myself and leave a mess
everywhere and litter in public. So even though I have wrongs in other aspects of my life, since we are only talking about
lateness where I am a model example, then do I have the right to criticize others' lateness and raise it up it to their face? I
think yes even though I am not perfect in other areas of my life. Or do you think the passage is saying that since I litter in public,
that means I have no right to judge someone's lateness?
The reason why I ask this is because I often want to point out and raise up issues and concerns in church ministry about other people's
actions that were clearly wrong and could be improved. But everytime I think about wanting to say something, I feel guilty because I
know I am not perfect and I have my own sins but in a completely different area. Does that mean I should not have the right to speak
up or should I speak up knowing full well that person did something wrong and I want to correct the situation in a loving way even though
I myself have areas in my life that needs rebuking and correcting but in totally different subject matter.
Example: I want to point out and criticize how "X" is not doing a good job in welcoming others and reaching out to others when they should
be since they are in a role or position of leadership. In this matter, I am good at doing that (reaching out and welcoming) but I privately know
that in my own personal life, I sin all the time let's say with my words...using a lot of profanities and God's name in vain (privately)...so it's a
completely different topic and I am not telling others why they shouldn't use profanities (because that would be wrong of me since I do it myself). But it should be ok for me to criticize others failure to be welcoming and to reach out as leaders since I do that well even though I am not in a position of leadership.
I just wonder about the context.
Since we are all sinners and all have our own faults, then technically, we would never be allowed to point out or raise up
any problems and criticisms in others because we have our own faults so who are we to ever criticize or judge someone else's
actions when in our own lives we are no better?
But I don't believe that is what it necessarily means. Agree or disagree? If you are talking about the same issue and you have
your own faults in that issue, then yes, you shouldn't criticize. But if your faults are in a totally different issue, I think it is ok.
Here's an example:
1) If I'm always late to meetings, late to scheduled events and horrible at keeping times, and then when someone else is late,
me pointing that out and criticizing them for their lateness is wrong since I am doing it worse.
2) If I'm always on time and reliable with keeping schedules times/dates and then someone else is not, then I have the right to
point it out and raise up the concern since I am exemplifying a good example even though I have my own faults in say
others issues like not being generous, being stingy, cheap, and let's say I also don't clean up after myself and leave a mess
everywhere and litter in public. So even though I have wrongs in other aspects of my life, since we are only talking about
lateness where I am a model example, then do I have the right to criticize others' lateness and raise it up it to their face? I
think yes even though I am not perfect in other areas of my life. Or do you think the passage is saying that since I litter in public,
that means I have no right to judge someone's lateness?
The reason why I ask this is because I often want to point out and raise up issues and concerns in church ministry about other people's
actions that were clearly wrong and could be improved. But everytime I think about wanting to say something, I feel guilty because I
know I am not perfect and I have my own sins but in a completely different area. Does that mean I should not have the right to speak
up or should I speak up knowing full well that person did something wrong and I want to correct the situation in a loving way even though
I myself have areas in my life that needs rebuking and correcting but in totally different subject matter.
Example: I want to point out and criticize how "X" is not doing a good job in welcoming others and reaching out to others when they should
be since they are in a role or position of leadership. In this matter, I am good at doing that (reaching out and welcoming) but I privately know
that in my own personal life, I sin all the time let's say with my words...using a lot of profanities and God's name in vain (privately)...so it's a
completely different topic and I am not telling others why they shouldn't use profanities (because that would be wrong of me since I do it myself). But it should be ok for me to criticize others failure to be welcoming and to reach out as leaders since I do that well even though I am not in a position of leadership.