Please pray to our Lord (Mary can also help), even just a little prayer on these things wich I share with all of you: Let me say straight up, I have a really nice guy. He treats me as an equal, he's not hot tempered, he's very even tempered, he makes me feel beautiful when I feel ugly, let me see what else, he looks into my eyes and I can see how much I mean. Well anyway needless to say, our relationship is a good one but.... he is agnostic and I am a practicing Catholic, he respects my beliefs but, being agnostic means also that he doesn't believe in the sacrament of marriage. We actually got to talking about it and needless to say I am very dissapointed
. To think I may never take that step. I'm the type of person who is willing sacrifice a lot but, this is kind of major. We already live together. What harm would it be to actually make this a holy relationship, the union of man and wife. I'm still saying "my boyfriend" and everyone else my age says "my husband" "my wife". Well actually a lot of people cohabitate for years and I don't know if that's ...is this going to be my destiny? It's hard enough to find a decent guy. Oh but, if he could know what we (who believe in God) already know. Then it would be a match made in heaven... well other than the fact he doesn't rally like animals that much and I do and desire a pet. Anyway now that I've talked everyone's ear off; pray for him, that he too might find God and for me that I may know His will and also the mind and the strength to do it.


I'd send you a "blessing" if I knew how but, I'm new to this site.
May the Lord open your boyfriend's heart that he may cometo know truth; may the Lord guide your words, and actions, and help you to have a healthy self-esteem, and see your true beauty without having it reflected; may you have peace. INJC.
Praying for you, oat and for your boyfriend.