Please Pray,use all your faith and believe GOD will unite me(Phil C.) and my soul mate together as soon as it is possible with GOD by any means necessary .I've never had a girlfriend and been Praying and hoping for one for at least 18 years,I'm 40 years old now...Thank You.....
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Please Pray
- Thread starter flamencophil
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Hi,
I will pray that God finds you a suitable partner. In my case I went through many years of broken relationships, then God actually spoke to me and told me a person I could marry. We got married and life has been good. Try not to get too emotionally involved in relationships, when we get to much hope, it destroys us when it fails. A relationship is for life so go into it with caution. It is better to not marry than to marry the wrong person. I am not suggesting you be judgmental of partners and have no romance, but try to always have settled emotions.
I will pray that God finds you a suitable partner. In my case I went through many years of broken relationships, then God actually spoke to me and told me a person I could marry. We got married and life has been good. Try not to get too emotionally involved in relationships, when we get to much hope, it destroys us when it fails. A relationship is for life so go into it with caution. It is better to not marry than to marry the wrong person. I am not suggesting you be judgmental of partners and have no romance, but try to always have settled emotions.
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Hi flamencophil.. Suggestion.. Get
Out more.. Go for walks in ur neigbhorhood, join ur local church,..
Get involved with ur community..
Also pray to God about this..
Let ur family know ur girlfriend
Request... If u have female friends
Uve known for a long time.. Ask
Them for date...
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flamencophil, I prayed that prayer for many years for myself, and now also for you. There is someone out there. I know you have thought about this and formulated plans in the past and nothing seems to pan out. So I ask you to think about this: when are you the happiest? What is it that you do that makes you feel like this is what you were born to do. Focus on these more and less on the mate. People with similar likes as you are out there looking for someone. A passion for a hobby can help spark another, more deeper kind of spark. And make sure you include God in your search. Don't just pasively pray for assistance, pray earnestly. Find a church, and if you are not comfortable there, keep looking until you find a way to understand God.
Many things in life are contagious in a good way: laughter, happiness, sadness, depression. Surround yourself with people that exhibit positive traits and before you know it, you will find that you are happy as well. And maybe one of these new friends will become much more.
No guarantees, but one thing is for sure. You must find happiness before you can share it. You must be happy with yourself.
I could be way off the mark, I'm just basing my answer on my own life. When I stopped looking for the perfect person and worked on myself, relaxed, and allowed people to see the real me, I was able to build relationships, rhomantic and others as well.
But know that you are not alone in your prayers. We are praying for you. I am praying for you. I am praying for your eternal happiness as well.
You came to this web page for a reason. I don't know how religious you are, but I believe you realize you can't do everything on your own. You asked me to pray for you, and I will. But look to God and see what you need to do for him so that he can truly help you short and long term. He loves you. He will hear your prayers, and the closer you get to him, the more you will be able to understand his responses.
In brotherly love,
RCF
Many things in life are contagious in a good way: laughter, happiness, sadness, depression. Surround yourself with people that exhibit positive traits and before you know it, you will find that you are happy as well. And maybe one of these new friends will become much more.
No guarantees, but one thing is for sure. You must find happiness before you can share it. You must be happy with yourself.
I could be way off the mark, I'm just basing my answer on my own life. When I stopped looking for the perfect person and worked on myself, relaxed, and allowed people to see the real me, I was able to build relationships, rhomantic and others as well.
But know that you are not alone in your prayers. We are praying for you. I am praying for you. I am praying for your eternal happiness as well.
You came to this web page for a reason. I don't know how religious you are, but I believe you realize you can't do everything on your own. You asked me to pray for you, and I will. But look to God and see what you need to do for him so that he can truly help you short and long term. He loves you. He will hear your prayers, and the closer you get to him, the more you will be able to understand his responses.
In brotherly love,
RCF
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Oh, you sweet man, I'll pray for your girl to love you!
I know what its like to love someone, I'll ask God to bring her to you!
I know what its like to love someone, I'll ask God to bring her to you!
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pwbarnes
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Phil, I didn't find the mate God had for me until I was 47. I know how hard it is to keep hoping and waiting. Please open my profile (http://www.christianforums.com/users/350306/), open "Contact Info" and click on my homepage link to my blog. I have an article there on how God worked miraculously in my life to bring my wife and I together entitled: "Am I destined to die alone?" (Sorry about being so convoluted, but I am not allowed to post a link to my blog in these posts)
Don't lose hope! Trust in God. He will give you the desires of your heart (but you may have to wait, possibly several years, before He does)
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