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MagicLady

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:prayer: I am in a very difficult situation and I feel the Lord has given me the answer however I am confused as to why I am the only one in this situation that feels sure of what I should be doing. Why would God tell me one thing if without Him telling my mate it is impossible? I feel it is right to be together and work through the rest.

I feel we belong together. and I know the situation is hard but things that are right are not always easy. I have prayed about this much and I do love this person but if I am the only one willing to do what it takes to make it I can not do any thing about my situation.

Love driveth out fear, yet fear is a huge part of this. I am praying that God will take away the fear in this situation. And give us strength.

If I am not right (though I believe I am) I am praying that God will show me by taking away the Love I feel and giving me peace in my heart about living alone. (I have no peace about this at all)

And I also pray that He will take this deep pain from my heart. Seperation from someone you truely Love is the greatest hurt I have ever felt. and I am no stranger to pain. Seperation just increases my pain in my heart. If we don't talk it may help my mate not see it but it just deepens my pain.

At the same time the stress and pain is causing my fibro to flare and I am having a hard time just functioning. Please pray for my health.

I can not go into any more details than this. But I am asking you to pray for me in this.

Thank You!
 

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Heavenly Father, i pray that you would give MagicLady the wisdom that she needs to konw what you want her to do. Lord, that you would give her the strength to carry on with the convictions that you have given her, and the courage to do them. Father, i pray that you would guide both of these people, and help them to follow your will in this situation. Lord, i also pray that you would take away the fear and uncertainty that is with MagicLady at the moment, that she would feel comforted knowing that you have this situation under control. Lord, i pray that you would give her patients, to do things in your timing as well, that she may not try to rush your plan for her life. Lord, i pray a blessing upon her life now, that no matter what happens she would follow your way, and be greateful for everything that you have done. In Jesus' name, amen
 
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Oh Lord, Please hear the prayer of your child, "Magiclady"... Lord, you know what is best for us... You promised to never put us in a situation that we could not get through, so I pray right now that you would be with magiclady... I pray that you would give her all that she needs comfort, direction, supporting friends and family. Bless her life Father, and please reveal to her what you want her to know... In the name of Jesus... Amen
 
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Hey there Magic Lady. I really hope you can work things out. I know its very hard not to stress over such things but try to focus on the fun things and remember life on earth is very temporary. Your love for your mate may be very very strong, and it is most likely you are meant to love this person that way. Still just because you love someone does not mean you are meant to work out with them. Struggling for someone's love is just a tiny taste of what God puts up with with us. He loves us all dearly, but so few of us return his love in kind, or understand it.

It is always right to strive to make things work when you love someone. It is ok to be selfless, try not to be pathetic and needy though. Not to say that you are of course. Many times such things are important learning lessons so that when you are introduced with some kind of mate in the future you will know better what to do. In order to make things like this work out, it does take a bunch of effort and yes even suffering sometimes. Try to be someone this person can admire, that they would brag about to their friends, makeing yourself better is always a good choice. Its better than gifts or services, makeing someone admire you makes them want to be with you.

Well I really have limmited knowledge of what's going on forgive the long speaches. I will pray you guys work out and that you do not have to suffer any more heartbreak, that the Lord can show your mate the virtues of effort and of you!
 
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Praying for you Magiclady:prayer: Praying that God would make all things clear to both you and your mate. Praying that you would feel God's arms around you during this difficult time and that you would rest in Him and His goodness. I continue to pray for your health Magiclady, praying that God would heal you and make your body strong again. Amen:groupray:

How have you been feeling physically? How are those blisters you were experiencing? Praying that they are healed!!
 
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cookieboo said:
How have you been feeling physically? How are those blisters you were experiencing? Praying that they are healed!!


Thank You for asking. I do still need prayer for my health. I went back to the Dr. and she gave me a different Med. it has been helping. the blisters are almost gone and I am not as bad as I was in that way. However the fibro is in a really bad flare and my pain level is very high right now. I am however very thankful at least my throat is feeling better. now I am having a tickle in me throat and a caugh :doh: Thank you again for your prayers. :hug:
 
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