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afraid

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:help: I'm so scared! Lastnight, I found out that I'm pregnant. I'M 14!!!!! I am absolutely beside myself and I'm freaking out! My boyfriend is here for me ofcourse and he is afraid too. He's 16. My parents are going to freak! I don't know what I'm gonna do. I'm so afraid of how my parents will react. They trusted me and my boyfriend. They love my boyfriend like a son. I feel so sick! I am soo afraid! What am I gonna do? Why did we have to be so stupid?! It's not like we are teens with raging hormones or anything. We're just so in love and.............it happened. *** *** ***!!!!!!!!! Please pray for me and that my boyfriend doesn't get beat up by my dad. I just need strength to get through this. We plan on telling them tomorrow. I don't want tomorrow to come! Please pray! I'm not ready for this! ***! I just registered on this sight cos I need someone to talk to. My boyfriend and I didn't go to school today cos we're too busy freaking out. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please...advice anyone? Prayers are needed extremely bad!
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Lord we ask that you uplift
Our sister and that the family
Will lean on you for this tough situation
But you will always provide in a tough time
In thy name and will amen
 
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afraid said:
:help: I'm so scared! Lastnight, I found out that I'm pregnant. I'M 14!!!!! I am absolutely beside myself and I'm freaking out! My boyfriend is here for me ofcourse and he is afraid too. He's 16. My parents are going to freak! I don't know what I'm gonna do. I'm so afraid of how my parents will react. They trusted me and my boyfriend. They love my boyfriend like a son. I feel so sick! I am soo afraid! What am I gonna do? Why did we have to be so stupid?! It's not like we are teens with raging hormones or anything. We're just so in love and.............it happened. *** *** ***!!!!!!!!! Please pray for me and that my boyfriend doesn't get beat up by my dad. I just need strength to get through this. We plan on telling them tomorrow. I don't want tomorrow to come! Please pray! I'm not ready for this! ***! I just registered on this sight cos I need someone to talk to. My boyfriend and I didn't go to school today cos we're too busy freaking out. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please...advice anyone? Prayers are needed extremely bad!
thank you.
Mimi
God Forgives You And So Will Your Father. Tell Him One On One Alone. I Recommend No Boyfriend Present When You Tell Him Until He Has Time To Calm Down... Pray , Pray, Pray...


In The Name Of Jesus Christ Our Savior I Pray That The Holy Spirit Enter And Meet All Needs. This I Pray In The Name Of Jesus Christ Who Suffered Torture At The Hands Of Men So That We May Be Forgiven. Amen
 
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im not here to lecture you...
children are a gift from God in ANY circumstance
please do not abort the baby.
wow...youre only 14
were you guys not using protection?

anyways my dear, ill be praying for you and this situation!

tonz of hugs and loves and prayers!:hug: :prayer:
 
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I know it's too late, but yeah, you should've used protection.

Satan tempts us to do things we're not ready for. But, I pray your dad will understand.....Stay calm. Explain the situation, and ask him for help. If he loves you, he'll help you. Ask God to give you strength.
 
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I will pray for you both.. God is right there with you.. He loves you both and will help you.. I am so glad you came here..
Both you and your boyfriend can kneel down together and commit this to the Lord Jesus.. He has promised that He will carry our burdens for us.. He will be right there with you to help you through this..
Don't be afraid.. I promise you that if you let God help you.. His peace will flood your souls and You will have such assurance in your hearts that YOU WILL KNOW God is helping you... God forgives you of any sins.. He wants to help you.. Please come back and tell us how you both are.. because there is a great future ahead for those who trust in God.. even when we do our best to stuff things up..

Dear God thank You thank You that this young girl signed up here.. Lord for we can pray.. Oh Lord I pray she comes back to read.. I pray that this girl and her boyfriend come to know and rely on You through this.. Father this is no accident... For You can use anything to bring about Your good purposes.. I pray that You help them to kneel down and trust this pregnancy, their lives and the coming days to You.. I pray that You give them peace and make straight paths for their feet.. I pray also for the parents that You go before and smooth the way... Father it will be a shock but we know You can bring about good things from this.. I know You love them so, all the people involved.. I ask this in Jesus name.. amen and amen
 
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Oh wow! I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you. I'm 14 as well. I will be keeping you in my prayers. Let us know how it goes with your parents and keep us updated! Yeah, they are all right, you should've used protection. Just don't have an abortion.
lots and lots of hugs, I wil be praying for you!
 
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I am praying right now ......
father please help this child..... Get her through the rough part of telling her parents...please father this child is not here just because ..... this childs path has been laid out for him or her before conception....its here because of you..... and I pray for a big, better bright future for this girl and her boyfriend.... please let them succeed and excel in their lives... so what if they have a baby...it does not stop them from continuing to go to school and getting careers to support this child....
It can only get better father and I probably sound crazy to some but I have been through so much , and I am a walking miracle today because why?|>>>>> "I Believe"....:prayer:
 
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Yeah, abortions aren't good. I can't imagine, from my point of you, how it must be ard for you. I'm normally a calm person, but if I was your boyfriend, I'd be freaking out, too. Just be calm, and explain the situation calmly. Also, your boyfriend shouldn't be present to say what he needs to say until your parents calm down.

If your parents try to calm your boyfriend, ask them to wait a minute before they calm down.
 
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Lord I add my prayer to all the others. May the parents hear this news with soft ears. Lord I pray the parents love her so much they can only do what is best for her and may all this work out for the best of all involved. Lord I pray this will be handled with loving loving special hearts. In the name of Jesus I pray. amen
 
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I am praying for you. Please know that God has a way of turning all things out for his good. I gave birth to my son 14 years ago, I was 14 at that time. I understand your fear and uncertainty. I am praying for you now and will continue to do so.:prayer:
 
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I am praying for you. God may she approach her parents in a mature way. God please don't allow her to have an abortion. God strengthen her and her boyfriend as they go through this trial. May they depend on you. God annoint them with wisdom as they go forward with this pregnacy. God put a hedge of protection around about them. Please keep us updated.
 
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Wow thanks everyone! I told them this morning and luckily I had asked my boyfriend to stay home until they calm down. It was pretty emotional. My dad freaked as I expected. He left. He's been gone for 5 hours. But he does that whenever he's upset. Thank God that I have always been close to my Mum. She's my best friend and she's supporting me 100%. I called my boyfriend and told him how everything is going. Now I'm just waiting for my dad to get back so we can all sit down together. And I assure all of you that I will NOT get an abortion. It's such a horrible thing to do. I do not believe in it at all. I think it's cruel. And We're thinking about keeping the baby, but we're not sure yet. Cos We're so young. I don't know. We'll see. I'm very scared about this. I'm so young. So is my boyfriend. But we're giving it all to God so we'll see how it works out. Thank you all so so much for your support. You don't know how appreciative I am. I'll keep you posted.
Mimi
 
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