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ladystaley

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Hello,

I had a few dreams in the last few months.
First one was hubby divorcing me..which is coming true. We are in this process now. Second was we were standing around, me and my daughter in one location while he and his mistress we're standing a few feet in front of us and we were surrounded by alligators. 1 of the alligators spoke to me and said we are not here for you and proceeded to surround him and his mistress. the next dream was I was getting married and had another child with my husband as the father as though we had reunited.

please tell me what you see or understand in these dreams. For I do not want to the idea of what I see with him after everything that has gone on for the entire marriage 2 now.


sorry i didnt respond sooner. i was caught up in the divorce, abandonment and starting my new life as a single mom. i thank all those who responded to my query and i thank you so much for your incite. i am still dealing emotionally because i put so much of myself into the marriage but i will heal and my daughter will too. thank again and may the Father bless ALL of you.
 
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..we were standing around, me and my daughter in one location while he and his mistress we're standing a few feet in front of us and we were surrounded by alligators. 1 of the alligators spoke to me and said we are not here for you and proceeded to surround him and his mistress..
Hi ladystaley.. this particular dream is very clear to me. What the Lord is showing you here is that there is now, or there is about to to be, some slander, gossip and verbal attacks. These attacks are not directed at you, although you may feel some of it. The attacks will be against and towards your ex and his new woman.

the next dream was I was getting married and had another child with my husband as the father as though we had reunited.
This most likely isn't literal, unless you & your ex decide to get back together. So it most likely is about you uniting with and committing more to Jesus and being fruitful as a result.
I pray these sit with your spirit.
God bless you
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Are you still there? So far you have one post, so I'm not sure.

Alligators stay submerged and watch what's going on. Then when they want to consume other animals, they lurk and drift quietly until they are right upon them... then snap. Friends can be this way, watching and observing and trying (so hard) to be quiet about the situation... then it just hits them and they snap.

I would guess that you would feel this way already -- very conscious of how people are watching and criticizing your situation.

It is a relief that the alligator confided in you and they were after him... but in the long run, you probably don't want that either. Just a tiny bit of justice and sweat....

It seems like God is reminding you to pray for him, no matter what the outcome might be. I wouldn't jump to conclusions about relationships, as it takes so long to get through all raw emotions. But do pray for his protection, even when you're not at risk.

It's tempting to want some sort of closure or repair, even if you don't want to be back in the same situation. I can't say what the last part means, but do your best to live this out the way God would want you to. Stay in line with Him, and glorify Him even in the deep dark valleys of risks.

Something that strikes me -- a child is not necessarily literal, but sometimes spiritual offspring or a venture that people undertake together. What brought you together originally might have been common interests or skills, and being separate does not necessarily mean you will not be productive in your separate but like-minded efforts.

What did you think?
 
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