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I have a nonbeliever girlfirend, we love each other a lot. Im a believer and have heard that i am not to be together with a non believer. i pray for opurtunitrs to share the truth with her
but i keep chickeing out. she doesnt believe anything. What shouldi do im so confused and torn apart any advice would be helpful...thank you//God Bless
 

nahMish

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if you expect for an opportunity to fall from the sky-as in,God telling you the words to say in a huge loud voice thundering in your ear-you are never going to hear it!

chickening out? WHY?
im guessing cos you are scared that she will laugh at you or dump you or whatever..but if she thinks you are a great guy and if you can communicate to her that this is the most important thing in your life- she should at least be willing to understand why its sooo important to you ! if she doesnt...well...??
witnessing to your girlfriend who already knows you are a christian is about living your life reflecting Christ and his character-not preaching to her :) she'll run the opposite direction !
most of all, its about patience...i have spent the last 7 years praying for my best friend to surrender her life to Jesus and its a slow, slow process-but i have no doubt that one day it will happen..
oh, and remember-its not your role to change her heart-only God can do that. just pray that God will give you the opportuities, the courage and the wisdom in the right way to approach it :)
Good luck :)
 
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