This comes from the idea that all sin is the same in God's eyes. Obviously, stealing a gumball is exactly the same to God as raping and murdering hundreds of little girls
I can't speak for God of course, but I believe we are told to flee from sin, no matter what shape or form it comes in. In this case, yes it is the same as in it warrants the same judgement.
But that's beside the point. The thing is, downloading programs is simply not the same as stealing money...
Yes, actually it is
exactly the same thing. The reason you pirate things, is probably twofold.
1) It's free.
2) You won't get caught.
Would you walk into a shop and steal the program from the shelf and walk out? No. Why not? You may get caught. Would you go and buy all the programs you own now? No. Why not? It would be too expensive for a one-shot outlay.
Bottom line, is that if you bought the program, someone, somewhere, would get revenue for it. By not buying it, they are not getting the money, meaning you have just stolen from them.
No it's not the same to us with our mortal eyes, but to God both are sins.
You can believe it is, but ultimately the "morality" here I believe lies with us and not God.
God
sets our moral guidelines for us. We cannot decided what to adhere to when. As Christians we strive to live up to God's perfect standards. We don't
choose when to do this, so that it suits us. We are told to tell the truth, even if it means our death. That doesn't sound like God is being very flexible with his moral guidelines. He is not saying you can do it as long as nothing adversely bad happens. We are totally subjective with our morals, God isn't, and as such He
is the moral standard we are to live to.
I simply just don't see the big problem here.
Well I truly hope you can be open-minded and come around to seeing it the way it is. I am not saying this, and secretly having a stash of pirated software on my PC. Recently my fiance and I went through our machines and ditched every single pirated program, or keygen-ed/cracked piece of software from our PCs. I deleted 1000s of MP3s... subsequently I now have zero music to listen to. It sucks.

When we buy games to play together, we purchase two copies, not one. We need two, to run them both simultaneously and play together. It's expensive. It's not convenient, but doing the right thing has never been easy. I do firmly believe in the long run, it is worth it though.
I don't download every program I want. I only have a few.
I don't steal all the time, only when it suits me.
I don't lie all the time, only when I need to.
I don't sleep with all the girls, only those I want to.
That sounds like a world without God to me. We can't pick and choose. Sinning a little, is still sinning.
And I don't redistribute or sell these programs. It's nothing like that.
I'm glad you don't.

Neither did I, but the closer I got to God, the worse I felt about even owning them and using them. Especially when I work in the games industry, and was a veritable flagship for anti-game piracy. What a hippocrit I was.

When I pirated anything non-game related all the time.
I merely utilize them for personal use.
It truly makes no difference what you use them for.
Maybe I'm wrong but then again, maybe you're wrong. Or yet even again, maybe none of us is wrong, and the moral choice is relative in this area.
This sounds like one of those things where we just give in to the neutrality of the situation and agree to not conflicting anymore.
"Maybe we just don't know what's going on, lets all be friends, and do what we like, I'm not right, you're not right, who cares?! *dances around in a circle*"
Can I suggest an alternative:
Maybe we should look at life through God's eyes, and make real accountable decisions
today to better ourselves, and move closer to Him.
Digit