My purpose in this thread was just to ask the questions and start a discussion. Your additional questions are a good start.
I used the words "instruction," "correction," and "rebuke" in my questions because that is how many Conservative Christians think about what it is they are doing. Many of those who are being "instructed," "corrected," or "rebuked" see process, and your motives differently.
I'm hoping this dialogue will be a chance for both to understand the others' viewpoint better.
There have been several threads where I have taken the time to post what and why I am here posting. Hoping that understanding would come, but was shocked when the only response I received was another person who believes homosexuality is a sin, asking someone who posted an attack (not necessarily to me) right after my post. No response to that or to my post, if the attack posted wasn't meant for me. So I hope more understanding comes from your attempts.
Luke 17:1-4
1 Then He said to the disciples, “It is impossible that no offenses should come, but woe
to him through whom they do come!
2 It would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were thrown into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones.
3 Take heed to yourselves. If your brother sins against you, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him.
4 And if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times in a day returns to you, saying, ‘I repent,’ you shall forgive him.”
The above scriptures tell us to be careful to not offend, but it also tells us to rebuke a brother/sister if they sin against you. It is a fine line between these instruction, and I'm sure it has not been achieved by all of us at all times. Yet, we don't see the scriptures say not to rebuke for fear of offending, so we continue on.
1 Tim 5:1-2
1 Do not rebuke an older man, but exhort
him as a father, younger men as brothers,
2 older women as mothers, younger women as sisters, with all purity.
1 Tim 5:17-25
17 Let the elders who rule well be counted worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in the word and doctrine. 18 For the Scripture says,
“You shall not muzzle an ox while it treads out the grain,” and, “The laborer
is worthy of his wages.”
19 Do not receive an accusation against an elder except from two or three witnesses.
20 Those who are sinning rebuke in the presence of all, that the rest also may fear.
21 I charge
you before God and the Lord Jesus Christ and the elect angels that you observe these things without prejudice, doing nothing with partiality.
22 Do not lay hands on anyone hastily,
nor share in other people’s sins; keep yourself pure.
23 No longer drink only water, but use a little wine for your stomach’s sake and your frequent infirmities.
24 Some men’s sins are clearly evident, preceding
them to judgment, but those of some
men follow later.
25 Likewise, the good works
of some are clearly evident, and those that are otherwise cannot be hidden.
I have often wondered how we should approach the scriptures about honoring and not rebuking elders in these threads when in some instantaneous young posters............well some of their post seem like attacks, not honoring.
Anyhow above is just a few of the different reasons we are to rebuke, which is why some here post. Some other scriptures are: 2 Tim 4:2, Titus 1:13; 2:15, Heb. 12:5. (I didn't want to make this a very long post by posting all them)
2 Tim 3:12-17
12 Yes, and all who desire to live godly in Christ Jesus will suffer persecution.
13 But evil men and impostors will grow worse and worse, deceiving and being deceived.
14 But you must continue in the things which you have learned and been assured of, knowing from whom you have learned
them,
15 and that from childhood you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.
16 All Scripture
is given by inspiration of God, and
is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness,
17 that the
man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work.
I have read several post that state we can't fully know the truth, but if we look at verse 17, we see how we can be completely and thoroughly equipped to do the Lord's work.
Why do I do what I do?
First, I feel that the Lord wants me to, and so until He tells me to shake the dust off my feet and move on I will do my best to let the Holy Spirit use me.
Second, I am not a perfect person, so just like my brothers and sisters in the Lord I fall at times, and I hope and pray that I would be loved enough to be rebuked, corrected and exhorted.
Maybe if I tell what those 3 words mean to me it would help.
Rebuke=To criticize or reprove sharply; reprimand.
I hope and pray that most of my post aren't considered sharp rebuking because I have tried not to sound sharp in my post, so it looks like I am not following the scriptures completely. I have always felt that you can get a better response with kindness and sharply responding to post just doesn't seem helpful to me. (even if I am still considered a hateful bigot by alot who disagree with my understanding of the scriptures on homosexuality)
Correct=Conforming to standards; proper: correct behavior.
We see how the scriptures are profitable for these things, and so that is why I use scriptures. This is critizied though almost as if it is evil or that a person is acting holier than others if I they do use scriptures..
Exhort=To make urgent appeal.
I believe that we are living in the last days, which to me means that the Lord could come at anytime, so to me it is urgent and so I try very hard to add to the Kingdom. I know that it could still be what we would consider a long time before the Lord comes, but I can't count on the fact that the Lord will tarry much longer. So this is why I continue to post, knowing that most of those that disagree with me probably aren't going to change their minds, but there are those who read but don't post. So I post for all, so that both sides of this issue is there for prayful consideration to those who are still seeking the answer to this issue.
I'm sorry this is so long, and I really don't think I totally explained all my feelings and reasons so if you have questions or need a better explanation please ask.