My heart goes out to the children...
My heart doesn't sympathize with the pedophile's predicament..
My conviction is that it is wrong, no matter what resources or authors support it. Maybe has to do with my own molested experience as a very young child, it remains strong feeling that this is wrong, and no amount of scholarly dance is going to change "that feeling".
I am pretty sure, you can ask almost any innocent child, how did they like it, and the answer is "NOT" That should be our answer too. This shouldn't be a question, but a conviction that God has given all His children on this question.