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Peculiar attractions... ?

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I'd have to say tomboy's for me. Not real butch one's. Slim, causal, active, with brownish hair. Not models face, but pretty, in a sweet casual, non-threatening way, capable of a cheeky smile. With small perfect teeth, with slightly tanned, or naturally olive skin, and beautiful brown/hazel eyes, that can just melt your heart.

Gee! I'm not picky, am I!?:D
 
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Hmm, I thought people would say specific things, but the women got things rolling on a "total package" kind of discussion. I'll break that trend right now!

I like full lips. Nice, soft, plump kissable lips. Either pouty or Angelina Jolie large.

I like a girl with athleticism. This doesn't mean a girl who "works out". This means a girl who is not afraid of seriously pushing her body's limits and can look graceful doing so. She might be blamed for being slightly competitive at times even.

I like a girl who is intelligent. Girls who are interested in politics, medicine, law, are good examples, but not limitations. They need to show a sense of rational thought and be able to disagree with me and argue validly.

I like a girl who isn't afraid of being outdoors to camp, be without comforts, hike, bike, or just enjoy fresh air period, because I will be outdoors a lot.

I like girls who are able to go from quirky comments about The Family Guy to praising the artistic expression of Claude Monet in the same breath. Showing that you are cultured yet still relatable to just about anyone you'll meet is very attractive.

I love girls who are selfless and serve others. Humility is beautiful in anyone.

I love girls who know how to encourage.

I love girls who are passionate about Christ and speak through their lives, no other ways.

I love girls who can do cheap jeans and a t-shirt but also have some very classy clothes for special occasions, and know when to make each work.

Chestnut hair, or auburn red.

Less makeup, more of the real person. No makeup at all ideally, but I dont' know how many girls even do that.

--James
 
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So what do I find attractive…



Non-Physical

The first thing that turns me on, or attracts me (once I meant the person) is a girl who is deeply in love with the Lord. If a girl does not love Jesus then forget it I am not interested. I love having deep conversations so a girl with enough intelligence to have a deep conversation is always nice. As for other things…well…I don’t know



Physical

Favorite hair colors in order: Red, Brunettes, Blondes (and everything else in between)

Weird attraction: Pretty Feet :)
 
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Yeah pretty feet! Although if she has some callouses, I admire those as well, because it says something about her.

I should add another statement to my list above.

Girls who can write literately are attractive. It's a huge turnoff when a girl cannot use proper grammar, when writing a paper, an email or letter, on instant messenger, etc.
 
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jepvc4 said:
Girls who can write literately are attractive. It's a huge turnoff when a girl cannot use proper grammar, when writing a paper, an email or letter, on instant messenger, etc.
That doesn't bother me as much as terrible spelling, and typing in almost all abbreviations (what r u doing? how r u? etc.) bother me.
 
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jepvc4 said:
Hmm, I thought people would say specific things, but the women got things rolling on a "total package" kind of discussion. I'll break that trend right now!

I like full lips. Nice, soft, plump kissable lips. Either pouty or Angelina Jolie large.

I like a girl with athleticism. This doesn't mean a girl who "works out". This means a girl who is not afraid of seriously pushing her body's limits and can look graceful doing so. She might be blamed for being slightly competitive at times even.

I like a girl who is intelligent. Girls who are interested in politics, medicine, law, are good examples, but not limitations. They need to show a sense of rational thought and be able to disagree with me and argue validly.

I like a girl who isn't afraid of being outdoors to camp, be without comforts, hike, bike, or just enjoy fresh air period, because I will be outdoors a lot.

I like girls who are able to go from quirky comments about The Family Guy to praising the artistic expression of Claude Monet in the same breath. Showing that you are cultured yet still relatable to just about anyone you'll meet is very attractive.

I love girls who are selfless and serve others. Humility is beautiful in anyone.

I love girls who know how to encourage.

I love girls who are passionate about Christ and speak through their lives, no other ways.

I love girls who can do cheap jeans and a t-shirt but also have some very classy clothes for special occasions, and know when to make each work.

Chestnut hair, or auburn red.

Less makeup, more of the real person. No makeup at all ideally, but I dont' know how many girls even do that.

--James

I love men like that as well. I also love a man who not only can share Christ with me. As well as passionate about Christianity and Faith. As well as considerate, friendly, polite, sweet to others and everybody in this world. I love a guy who goes casual but also have a thing for men in tuxedos.
 
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Attractions, hmm:

smaller then me (I'm 5'10.5")

got to be a Christian and attends church atleast once a week.

not a clubbing girl

a non-smoker and doesn't drink often

like rock music and some country

I like a country girl, because I would like to move out into the country(currently near Fort lauderdale).

long, straight hair

HONESTY

I thinks thats it.
 
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missju said:
I like what sensitive types call "big boned" men. YUMMY! Love me some mushy cuddlin'.

I like guys with a few tattoos and piercings. Hot HOT HOT. Probably because I like them on myself as well.

Kick me, but I like a scruffy guy in (sorry bout the lame stereotype) metrosexual kinda clothes. like striped button-downs with graphics on them... not-too-baggy dark wash jeans... a nice boot... I'm sitting here practically drooling. I think I saw a few of these men on What Not To Wear.

shaved heads or dreds... hubba!
Haha, I was waiting to see if anyone would say this. That's me right there. Not except I'm not really big boned I just have a little "cushion" on me. Haha.

I don't really have any preferences as far as who I'll date. I've dated different types and it usually just depends on if we click or not. I like longer hair, doesn't have to be a certain type, I like a few tattoos as long as they are appropriate. not really into skin and bones type though. I like a girl in jeans and a T-shirt. Casual look I guess.
 
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C'mon folks! This is supposed to be PECULIAR attractions... :D

Good christian people, people that don't do drugs, etc... This is not peculiar.



What I am talking about is my current love interest that has REAL fangs... (when her adult teeth came in, the K9 grew in much longer and angled than normal)... and I want her to bite me with them and draw blood. THAT'S peculiar. :D
 
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