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Paul Cain sin announced by Joyner, Bickle, and Deere

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And again, why on earth would we want to focus on it? Did you hear about David? Killed a man. Can't believe how we thought he was a man after God's heart. I'll never listen to him again, glad I didn't listen to him before. He was a Charismatic I hear, sometimes he'd dance like a crazy man. And man oh man he did the unthinkable, slept with a married woman too. I sure am glad I'm not like him. Sure am glad I don't have a ministry like his. :preach:
 
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Once a man is no longer "blameless" and no longer has "a good testimony among those who are outside..", he is no longer qualified to be an overseer in the Body. 1 Tim. 3. These people who stink up the reputation of the Lord and His Assembly and then just keep on trying to get back into the "ministry" are not interested in the Word at all. They are interested in their "ministry." That's where their money is after all, and their ego strokes. But these guys who do this should just quit, repent of their sin, and then get a real job and just quietly live for God until they go home.
 
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StevenL said:
Once a man is no longer "blameless" and no longer has "a good testimony among those who are outside..", he is no longer qualified to be an overseer in the Body. 1 Tim. 3. These people who stink up the reputation of the Lord and His Assembly and then just keep on trying to get back into the "ministry" are not interested in the Word at all. They are interested in their "ministry." That's where their money is after all, and their ego strokes. But these guys who do this should just quit, repent of their sin, and then get a real job and just quietly live for God until they go home.

You've got to be kidding about this right?

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Svt4Him said:
And again, why on earth would we want to focus on it? Did you hear about David? Killed a man. Can't believe how we thought he was a man after God's heart. I'll never listen to him again, glad I didn't listen to him before. He was a Charismatic I hear, sometimes he'd dance like a crazy man. And man oh man he did the unthinkable, slept with a married woman too. I sure am glad I'm not like him. Sure am glad I don't have a ministry like his. :preach:
What would we do without David's sin to justify our own? We always have Bathsheba to run back to, don't we?
You are not using David's sin to justify sin in our "leaders" are you?
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StevenL said:
Not if the words of Paul are true words.

Are these words of Paul true? Or are there conditions on the ability of Jesus?

Gal 6:1-5
6:1 Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted. 2 Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. 3 For if anyone thinks himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself. 4 But let each one examine his own work, and then he will have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. 5 For each one shall bear his own load.
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Then the words to Timothy were for a different class? Are pastors then a different race too? Subject to being different than the rest of us?

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Asaph said:
Are these words of Paul true? Or are there conditions on the ability of Jesus?

Gal 6:1-5
6:1 Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted. 2 Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. 3 For if anyone thinks himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself. 4 But let each one examine his own work, and then he will have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. 5 For each one shall bear his own load.
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Then the words to Timothy were for a different class? Are pastors then a different race too? Subject to being different than the rest of us?

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Yes, overseers have a standard to meet. Paul didn't write all those qualifications so we could pick and choose which ones we wanted to use. But that's why we're in the mess we're in now. We've picked the few sentences we like and thrown out the rest. "Oh Paul couldn't have really meant that"...."why?"...."because I say so, that's why." "Paul just needed to add a few silly words so his letter wouldn't be too short. He knew nobody would really take him seriously, you know." :D No, he meant every Word and he was right.
 
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Jim M said:
What would we do without David's sin to justify our own? We always have Bathsheba to run back to, don't we?
You are not using David's sin to justify sin in our "leaders" are you?
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Do you get that from my post? We talk about love, but love keeps no record of wrong. It seems to me that in Christian circles it's ok, because we're talking about their sin, and we don't want to tolerate sin now do we, even if someone repents of it.
 
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Svt4Him said:
Do you get that from my post? We talk about love, but love keeps no record of wrong. It seems to me that in Christian circles it's ok, because we're talking about their sin, and we don't want to tolerate sin now do we, even if someone repents of it.
I guess I could be sounding self-righteous, S, I’ll admit. I honestly do believe that I am nothing more than a sinner saved by grace and still capable, in my flesh, of all the sinfulness I ever performed as a bonafide “sinner”. But that is not the point.

I am wondering why Mr. Cain, because of his problem with alcoholism and homosexuality, did not simply step off the stage and either get some help or get him a job selling vacuum cleaners. Why did he persist in “speaking for God” and willfully deceiving people? The problem, as I view it, was not as much with his addictions and orientation as it was with his hypocrisy. Maybe he felt that alcohol and homosexuality were bigger than him and he could not control his cravings, but he could control his deception and lies. He willfully chose to deceive and betray good (albeit gullible) people for money (see 2 Cor. 2.17 below).

If I do, as an appointed leader of one of the Lord’s flock, no matter how insignificant that appointment is, I am expected (required) to give an account of my stewardship to the Master. There are character qualifications for anyone who serves in any position of leadership in the church. True leadership is by example as well as by preaching – we lead with our life as well as by our words.


Philippians 3 17Join with others in following my example, brothers, and take note of those who live according to the pattern we gave you.
If character does not matter all that much in our appointed (or self-appointed) leaders , then what is all the following about?
1 Corinthians 3. 10By the grace God has given me, I laid a foundation as an expert builder, and someone else is building on it. But each one should be careful how he builds.

Romans 2. 21you, then, who teach others, do you not teach yourself? You who preach against stealing, do you steal? 22You who say that people should not commit adultery, do you commit adultery? You who abhor idols, do you rob temples? 23You who brag about the law, do you dishonor God by breaking the law?

2 Corinthians 2. 17Unlike so many, we do not peddle the word of God for profit. On the contrary, in Christ we speak before God with sincerity, like men sent from God.

2 Corinthians 4. 1Therefore, since through God's mercy we have this ministry, we do not lose heart. 2Rather, we have renounced secret and shameful ways; we do not use deception, nor do we distort the word of God. On the contrary, by setting forth the truth plainly we commend ourselves to every man's conscience in the sight of God.

1 Thessalonians 2. 3For the appeal we make does not spring from error or impure motives, nor are we trying to trick you. 4On the contrary, we speak as men approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel. We are not trying to please men but God, who tests our hearts. 5You know we never used flattery, nor did we put on a mask to cover up greed--God is our witness. 6We were not looking for praise from men, not from you or anyone else. 7As apostles of Christ we could have been a burden to you, but we were gentle among you, like a mother caring for her little children. 8We loved you so much that we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well, because you had become so dear to us. 9Surely you remember, brothers, our toil and hardship; we worked night and day in order not to be a burden to anyone while we preached the gospel of God to you. 10You are witnesses, and so is God, of how holy, righteous and blameless we were among you who believed. 11For you know that we dealt with each of you as a father deals with his own children, 12encouraging, comforting and urging you to live lives worthy of God, who calls you into his kingdom and glory.

1 Timothy 3. 1Here is a trustworthy saying: If anyone sets his heart on being an overseer, he desires a noble task. 2Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. 4He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him with proper respect. 5(If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God's church?) 6He must not be a recent convert, or he may become conceited and fall under the same judgment as the devil. 7He must also have a good reputation with outsiders, so that he will not fall into disgrace and into the devil's trap. 8Deacons, likewise, are to be men worthy of respect, sincere, not indulging in much wine, and not pursuing dishonest gain. 9They must keep hold of the deep truths of the faith with a clear conscience. 10They must first be tested; and then if there is nothing against them, let them serve as deacons. 11In the same way, their wives are to be women worthy of respect, not malicious talkers but temperate and trustworthy in everything. 12A deacon must be the husband of but one wife and must manage his children and his household well.

1 Timothy 6. 11But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness. 13. . . I charge you 14to keep this command without spot or blame until the appearing of our Lord Jesus Christ.

2 Timothy 2. 4No one serving as a soldier gets involved in civilian affairs--he wants to please his commanding officer. . . . 15Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth. 16Avoid godless chatter, because those who indulge in it will become more and more ungodly. 17Their teaching will spread like gangrene. Among them are Hymenaeus and Philetus, 18who have wandered away from the truth. They say that the resurrection has already taken place, and they destroy the faith of some. . . . 22Flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 23Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels.

Titus 1. 7Since an overseer is entrusted with God's work, he must be blameless--not overbearing, not quick-tempered, not given to drunkenness, not violent, not pursuing dishonest gain. 8Rather he must be hospitable, one who loves what is good, who is self-controlled, upright, holy and disciplined. 9He must hold firmly to the trustworthy message as it has been taught, so that he can encourage others by sound doctrine and refute those who oppose it.

Titus 2. 1You must teach what is in accord with sound doctrine. . . . 7In everything set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness 8and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so that those who oppose you may be ashamed because they have nothing bad to say about us. 9Teach slaves to be subject to their masters in everything, to try to please them, not to talk back to them, 10and not to steal from them, but to show that they can be fully trusted, so that in every way they will make the teaching about God our Savior attractive.

It is in these areas that so many of our self-anointed leaders have failed. If it is due to spiritual or moral weakness, they should step out of the limelight and get some teaching and discipleship. They should be in the pew and not on a pedestal. If it is willful sin, hypocrisy, deception, dishonesty, they should be in jail, not in a pulpit or on a TV screen.
I am surprised that these clear and understandable requirements are only enforced on our pastors (and maybe our presidential candidates) but televangelist and celebrity ministers get a flying pass.
Why is this?
I don’t get it.

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Jim M said:

I am wondering why Mr. Cain, because of his problem with alcoholism and homosexuality, did not simply step off the stage and either get some help or get him a job selling vacuum cleaners. Why did he persist in “speaking for God” and willfully deceiving people? The problem, as I view it, was not as much with his addictions and orientation as it was with his hypocrisy. Maybe he felt that alcohol and homosexuality were bigger than him and he could not control his cravings, but he could control his deception and lies. He willfully chose to deceive and betray good (albeit gullible) people for money (see 2 Cor. 2.17 below).


Because the charism was still working, if it's there that is. None of his corporate prophecies that I heard have come to pass and I was never given a personal prophecy by him. If the charism is still working, he may have fallen into a false security.
 
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Jim M said:
I am wondering why Mr. Cain, because of his problem with alcoholism and homosexuality, did not simply step off the stage and either get some help or get him a job selling vacuum cleaners. Why did he persist in “speaking for God” and willfully deceiving people? The problem, as I view it, was not as much with his addictions and orientation as it was with his hypocrisy. Maybe he felt that alcohol and homosexuality were bigger than him and he could not control his cravings, but he could control his deception and lies. He willfully chose to deceive and betray good (albeit gullible) people for money (see 2 Cor. 2.17 below).\o/
What deception's and lie's are you referring to Jim? The one's about his life style or the word's of God that came via him? Are you attacking both the man and the means that God used him? Are you calling God's gifting's and His using a man who was falling as deceptive and untrue?

Scripture is full of stories where God used people who were not walking rightly with Him. Scripture say's that He love's us so much that He will make sure that we are exposed so as to be brought to repentance. . .but it does not say that in the process that God's gift's become fake and any less true. God spoke through a donkey, He can certaintly choose to speak through a frail man who even though not walking in unrightness with Him is still in tune with what He is saying to other's. Only God know's a man's heart and there but for the grace of God go I.
 
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StevenL said:
I don't doubt that at all. :) When you give some Scriptural reason for your disagreement using the actual words of the apostle, I'll know your disagreement is worth considering. Until then, I'll give it the place it deserves.

Yes, and I have zero reason to respect any of your opinions either. You have mishandled the passage you were elevating yourself with. (No man has the ability to restore another to a right relationship with the Lord. Encourage, comfort, and edify yes, restore no)

Gal 6:1-10
6:1 Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted. 2 Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. 3 For if anyone thinks himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself. 4 But let each one examine his own work, and then he will have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. 5 For each one shall bear his own load.

6 Let him who is taught the word share in all good things with him who teaches. 7 Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap. 8 For he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption, but he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life. 9 And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart. 10 Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all, especially to those who are of the household of faith.
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Now that's the entire passage and as you can see it is dealing with matters of the congregation, not with a relationship with the Lord.

2 Cor 2:5-9
6 This punishment which was inflicted by the majority is sufficient for such a man, 7 so that, on the contrary, you ought rather to forgive and comfort him, lest perhaps such a one be swallowed up with too much sorrow. 8 Therefore I urge you to reaffirm your love to him. 9 For to this end I also wrote, that I might put you to the test, whether you are obedient in all things.
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And here Paul deals with a similar situation. Nowhere does Paul intimate that he is so lofty that he has the power to do that which only God can do.

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Quaffer said:
What deception's and lie's are you referring to Jim? The one's about his life style or the word's of God that came via him? Are you attacking both the man and the means that God used him? Are you calling God's gifting's and His using a man who was falling as deceptive and untrue?

Scripture is full of stories where God used people who were not walking rightly with Him. Scripture say's that He love's us so much that He will make sure that we are exposed so as to be brought to repentance. . .but it does not say that in the process that God's gift's become fake and any less true. God spoke through a donkey, He can certaintly choose to speak through a frail man who even though not walking in unrightness with Him is still in tune with what He is saying to other's. Only God know's a man's heart and there but for the grace of God go I.
I am talking about the kind of deception that presents an image that is false. Perosnally, I do not know of the real accuracies of Cain’s prophecies and revelations, although I hear they are legendary. I have no qualms with the man. I pray that he will allow God to restore him.

What troubles me, Q, as I believe I said in post #51, is that character and integrity count, indeed are a requirement, not only in all Christians, but especially in those who have been given the privilege of leadership and ministry within the Body of Christ. To whom much is given, much is required.

The problem, as I see it, is that Mr. Cain willfully hid his sins from others while he defiantly continued to assume leadership. This, by any standard, is duplicity. I hope I made it clear that I am not judging his homosexual proclivities or his addiction. Those are sometimes beyond a mortal’s ability to successfully cope with. But lying and fraud are willful and reveal rebelliousness in an individual. I could respect a man who, realizing his problems as insurmountable, would quietly leave a position of leadership until he overcame his sinful actions rather than obstinately (perhaps defiantly) continue in them.

Of course, that too can be forgiven, but it does reveal a weakness of character that is not only a breach of integrity but is denounced in the NT scriptures I offered.

While it is wrong to accuse people falsely, as Romans 2.15 tells us, it is equally wrong to excuse them when they willfully disobey God. Especailly leaders. That enables them – and ultimately hurts them.

Which of the scriptures I provided above are we to intentionally ignore?

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I'm not elevating myself and have mishandled nothing. :) You still haven't provided any Word showing the restoring of sinning, blaspheming "pastors" or "prophet" or "ministers" to the ministry.

Gal 6:1-10
6:1 Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted. 2 Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. 3 For if anyone thinks himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself. 4 But let each one examine his own work, and then he will have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. 5 For each one shall bear his own load.


"Restore such a one." That's not mishandled. It's easy reading of the English language. There's nothing in that passage about restoring "ministers" to an "office." Here's another one.


James 5:19 Brethren, if anyone among you wanders from the truth, and someone turns him back, 20let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save a soul from death and cover a multitude of sins.

The one who turns the sinner, saves the sinner. But this still has nothing to do with defiled "preachers" being restored to their "ministry."

Galatians 1:6...2 Cor 5....totally irrelevant to what we're talking about here.
 
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StevenL said:
I'm not elevating myself and have mishandled nothing. :) You still haven't provided any Word showing the restoring of sinning, blaspheming "pastors" or "prophet" or "ministers" to the ministry.

Gal 6:1-10
6:1 Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted. 2 Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. 3 For if anyone thinks himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself. 4 But let each one examine his own work, and then he will have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. 5 For each one shall bear his own load.


"Restore such a one." That's not mishandled. It's easy reading of the English language. There's nothing in that passage about restoring "ministers" to an "office." Here's another one.


James 5:19 Brethren, if anyone among you wanders from the truth, and someone turns him back, 20let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save a soul from death and cover a multitude of sins.

The one who turns the sinner, saves the sinner. But this still has nothing to do with defiled "preachers" being restored to their "ministry."

Galatians 1:6...2 Cor 5....totally irrelevant to what we're talking about here.

It has everything to do with it. And yes you are reading into the scriptures that which you want to see. I get the immpression that no punishment would ever be enough for these people in your eyes.

We have been given a ministry of reconciliation, not one of damnation. So, please forgive me of whatever harm I have caused you, and I will sully this thread no more with my comments.

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The problem, as I see it, is that Mr. Cain willfully hid his sins from others while he defiantly continued to assume leadership. This, by any standard, is duplicity. I hope I made it clear that I am not judging his homosexual proclivities or his addiction. Those are sometimes beyond a mortal’s ability to successfully cope with. But lying and fraud are willful and reveal rebelliousness in an individual. I could respect a man who, realizing his problems as insurmountable, would quietly leave a position of leadership until he overcame his sinful actions rather than obstinately (perhaps defiantly) continue in them
That is a great point. Now I should add that someone in sin should be removed, I don't think we have disagreement there. My issue is with the times all 'the others' who have fallen are brought up...again and again and again and again. God's forgiven them, God restores them, then why do we who are so loving constantly throw the records of their wrong around? That is my reference to David. But David repented and turned to God. If anyone found in sin does that, then it is not our responsibiliby to keep reminding God of it, as He's already forgot. This is different if Mr. Cain hasn't repented.
 
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