I'm the one who stated that it was a falacy and here is why I believe that. This is a copy of a post that Jimmy West posted recently that is called "The Lowness Doctrine". It is what changed my mind:
There is a basic question that we all need to ask. We need to ask it and fully understand the answer. The question is: Why did God create us? What is our purpose? Those who truly understand the character of God realize the basis for everything that he does is love. For love is what He is. Every other characteristic that he has is based on the characteristic of love. If you understand that, you must believe that our creation, the reason that He created Adam, was based on love. Our purpose in being here is that we would be Gods loving family, that he would have somebody to love, and somebody to love him. Family and the family relationship are what God is all about and is evident throughout the Bible.
The Bible states that we were, and are, created in Gods image. That is, we are created to be LIKE him. Of course, we can not be everything that he is, but we can possess his basic character. And his basic character is one of love, goodness, kindness, mercy, patience, tolerance, understanding and joy. His will must be evident to those who profess to know him. If we were created to be like him, then it is his will that we also possess his character.
There is a belief that is prominent in the Christian community that we are born with a sinful nature. It goes beyond that to say that we actually inherit the sin of Adam. There is another belief that works hand-in-hand with the previous two that we are not worthy to have a relationship with God the Father, that we are not worthy to even approach Him.
The truth is that sinfulness, or evilness, or wickedness are not inherited traits. They are not genetic. Ask any psychologist. Ask any psychiatrist. Ask any scientist who studies and researches genetic science. They will all tell you that behaviors are not inherited, but instead, are learned. Sinfulness is something that is learned during our childhood. It is a product of the environment that surrounds us while we grow up. Think about it: If a child grew up in an environment where there was no sin, that child would grow up to be sinless. He would not remain that way, because as soon as he was exposed to the world, which is full of sin, that influence would contaminate his sinless character. Another thing to consider is that God would not continue to create something with the defect of a sinful nature.
So, here it is: We were created to be like God. If you believe that we truly are his children, you can not believe that God would create sinful children.
The problem is that this doctrine of lowness has caused most Christians to dig themselves into a hole. It is a hole where they believe that they belong. They think that they are doomed to this stature due to Adams sin. As they sit in their holes, that remain distant from God. They can neither see nor hear him. As they sit in their holes of deprivation they will say things like: I am sinful in nature, I am evil, I am not worthy of Gods grace, I am not worthy of a relationship with God. What they say is true, but it is not God, but they themselves who have placed themselves there.
GOD DOES NOT WANT YOU THERE!
Gods will is that you climb out of that hole and clean yourselves up and make yourselves acceptable to him. He wants to have a relationship with you, a relationship of closeness. As long as you stay in that hole and believe that you are not worthy, you WILL NOT BE worthy.
So, how do we become worthy, how do we become acceptable to him? As stated above, we must become like Him. In order to become like Him, it is necessary that we cast aside our flesh and become spiritual in our relationship with him. When we replace our carnality with spirituality, we are listening to the Holy Spirit instead of our animalistic instincts. That is when He can talk to us, for at that time, our spiritual ear is tuned to His spiritual voice. We become one-in-spirit with him.
If you believe that we were meant to be a loving family, then you must believe in a family relationship. A true family relationship is one of closeness, and is based on love and trust. That is what He wants. He can not have a relationship with you while you are sitting in your hole of sinfulness. It is time you climb out now! If you want to bless God in a big way, give him what he wants; you.