[open] arguments?

How often do you argue with your spouse?

  • Almost every day.

  • Maybe once every few days.

  • Once every week or two.

  • About once a month.

  • Rarely, if ever.


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HeatherJay

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I actually LIKE a lot of our debating and disagreements. LOL, we've always been that way with each other, ever since we were dating. There are very few things I find more mentally stimulating than an intelligently heated exchange of opinions. :yum:

We're both very passionate people in all things (lol, me moreso than him). We have strong opinions and a need to have those opinions heard and validated. LOL, a truly passionate nature is a double edged sword. ;)
 
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My wife is a conflict seeker, so there is potential for arguments maybe 1-2 times per week.

After years of hard training, I've learned how to walk on egg shells and dodge bullets.

It's reduced our argument frequency to about once every two months.
 
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I actually LIKE a lot of our debating and disagreements. LOL, we've always been that way with each other, ever since we were dating. There are very few things I find more mentally stimulating than an intelligently heated exchange of opinions. :yum:

We're both very passionate people in all things (lol, me moreso than him). We have strong opinions and a need to have those opinions heard and validated. LOL, a truly passionate nature is a double edged sword. ;)

LOL! I could have written this!! :D I love debating too. We do this also- it's just not considered fighting by us. And you're right- it really is a double edged sword!
 
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Rarely, if ever.

I have only known my husband a little over a year, and we still have yet to have a major argument. I try not to let my bad moods affect him, and he usually backs off when I'm in a bad mood. And if he is in a bad mood I try to do the same.

I love my husband :kiss:
 
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