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Ok I HATE being single!!

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I saw an article recently where a guy did, in fact, walk down the street with a sign just like you describe. I don't know how well it worked out for him, whether it got him any dates or not.

Advertising here for a date presents problems. First, I'm not sure it sits well with the site TOS. Secondly, there's the distance issue. This site is accessible world-wide. Supposing, just as an example, I set my cap for PC4. Big problem, I'm in Carol Stream, Illinois (a Western suburb of Chicago) and she's in Australia. Financing a trip to meet is out of the question for me, and I suspect dollars aren't all that common around her either. So, how do you propose we would meet? So, I fancy that for both of us we would do better to look in local sources rather than trying to use this international site to try to date. Just a stray thought or two.
Please help me design my sign :cool:

Ah distance but true love and how about a cyber wed n marriage ;)

yeah I am looking local but no success, gotta widen my search??
 
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Please help me design my sign :cool:

Ah distance but true love and how about a cyber wed n marriage ;)

yeah I am looking local but no success, gotta widen my search??

Aww... tell us about yourself.. :)

A bit more.. if you want too.. what kind of person are you that sits on the other side of your screen typing out your words.. what is in your heart to share... and what do you want to give to someone else..
 
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Aww... tell us about yourself.. :)

A bit more.. if you want too.. what kind of person are you that sits on the other side of your screen typing out your words.. what is in your heart to share... and what do you want to give to someone else..
Im too shy to tell about myself :sorry: looks like another dead end :(
 
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I'd not heard the idea of a cyber marriage before. Guess is would have some advantages and disadvantages as well. Guess, a couple would have to talk extensively about what to expect in a cyber marriage.
Yeah CF's first cyber wedding!! :idea:
 
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That's got me wondering how a cyber marriage would work. Husband and wife six thousand miles away from each other, no chance of ever meeting--- well, it wouldn't be hard to be near perfect for each other since there's no chance the other person would ever find out what you're really like, but--- oh, man, what would the children look like?
 
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Im too shy to tell about myself :sorry: looks like another dead end :(

I think I could coax it out of you.. ;)

I know your forty three and a guy.. :) and you want a woman..

I know about shyness.. but online I can be more me.. In real life though.. ohhhh I would not be answering door to you.. lol.. funny.. I get tongue tied.. and say silly things..

Tell me about things you like then.. pretty please..
 
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A cyber marriage would include a set time each day to get on the web. I think there would be video set up so they could see each other. This should make for good communication because when people are on the computer their mind is usually quite focused. At home the TV might be on or one could be working on some task. So conversations can get missed or be pretty superficial. That part of a cyber marriage might actually work better.
 
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Nooooo..... cyber marriage would not work.. cause you cannot touch your wife/husband.. and the rest.. and hold hands.. ;)

You will meet her.. just wait and see.. just let go of all the bad stuff.. don't sweat it.. enjoy your life.. live free.. there is something in being thankful joyful and letting what happens happen..

Try wearing bright colors or just bright socks or some bright jocks lol then nobody else sees them but everywhere you go you know you have them on.. and you might just giggle and it will change your day.. that way you will stand out in the crowd because your happy.. and surely she will notice you then... do something a bit wild.. spontaneous.. find the joy and share just ONE thing about yourself here.. You can do it.. I dare you...
 
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the brightest socks I have is white .. does that count? :)

Too funny.. some whites can be bright though.. I just read what I wrote and think.. she's losing it.. :D
 
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Ohhhh lol.. I meant the original poster I think I overdid it a bit with him.. I know you couldn't be scared off.. your just too friendly and nice.. and I am enjoying knowing you..

I myself am shy.. so I really really understand how difficult it is.. I am not as shy online.. but sometimes.. lol if I have posted something a little out there.. I am shy to come back and read replies.. silly I know..
 
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That is being shy when you don't feel like reading the replies. You have been very open on here about your life. I used to be more open .. but my GF says quite often don't post anything about me.

Did you mean she doesn't want you to post about yourself, or she doesn't want you to post about her? The latter I can relate to, but not if she's saying don't post about yourself. Just remember you would never want her to read anything that you wouldn't say to her face and you'll be fine.
 
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