Not going to get any better.

[medkaren7]

Well,
My husband is keeping the house, I am moving into a one bedroom house in town, and he said he is never coming home and it is my fault because I wouldn't just leave things alone. What he means is that I wouldn't sit by and be lied to about him and this other woman. I am so mad at him right now, but still don't know how to stop loving him. I guess I don't know anything anymore. He says that he was not going to leave me until I confronted him about her, and I should have just been quiet because all they were doing was talking. (for 4-5 hours a day) I don't know, I guess he is right. I give up.

 

[InTheFlame]

Wait a minute. You're at fault because you found out what was going on? Or you're at fault because you questioned him? Do you believe that?

*hug*

I'm sorry to hear you've had to move out. Do you have money? Do you have any savings that he might have access to?

I know this might seem horrible, but you need to make sure that any savings you've both contributed to, that you get your share ASAP and put it beyond his reach. Don't assume that he'll do the right thing by you. He might - but he also might grab everything and leave you with nothing. I'm sorry you're in this situation. Praying for you.

 

[Rosa Mystica]

Well,
My husband is keeping the house, I am moving into a one bedroom house in town, and he said he is never coming home and it is my fault because I wouldn't just leave things alone. What he means is that I wouldn't sit by and be lied to about him and this other woman. I am so mad at him right now, but still don't know how to stop loving him. I guess I don't know anything anymore. He says that he was not going to leave me until I confronted him about her, and I should have just been quiet because all they were doing was talking. (for 4-5 hours a day) I don't know, I guess he is right. I give up.

You poor dear.

Sweetie, maybe you should not try so hard to stop loving your husband and just focus on healing yourself for a whild (I know, easier said than done). Now, let me tell you another thing: you are not at fault here. Pardon this expression, but your husband sounds like a scumbag who is trying to justfy cheating on you. His leaving you is his loss, not yours! You need to recognize this- it might enable you to heal yourself more quickly.

You sound like you really need to talk. Remember, my PM box is always open. I'm here if you want me to be.

Rosa

 

[j_e_s_s_i_e]

this is not your fault. you should be able to question things in your marriage and not be brought down because of it. when two people love each other they are supposed to be honest, and faithful to each other. and he has not done that. and as soon as you questioned that about him he freaked. i really believe you should forget him, i know you love him so that will be hard to do, but if you really think about it...what has he done for you other then hurt you like this?

 

[growingupinhim]

this is not your fault. you should be able to question things in your marriage and not be brought down because of it. when two people love each other they are supposed to be honest, and faithful to each other. and he has not done that. and as soon as you questioned that about him he freaked. i really believe you should forget him, i know you love him so that will be hard to do, but if you really think about it...what has he done for you other then hurt you like this?

I agree for the time being foregt him..but still be open to forgiveness..maybee things will change..perhaps he will really miss you and repent..of course the best thing is to be faithful to him..to the end..