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Go out with the girls, or stay home because you have a guy?

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bluelime2

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Depends if the trust issues are valid and you're likely to be tempted again in the areas you're going out.

Like someone else said, a boardgame at a friends house (particularly with other girls) is pretty harmless generally. But nightclubs can be less so. However boardgames can deteriorate into gossip or something else unhealthy and nightclubs can be quite fun. So it's circumstantial. I think it's best to just be wise towards your own limits and respect them.
 
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SparkyMaddie

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It's not only normal, but necessary for the success of the relationship. You can't be a two-person island and expect to have a healthy relationship, not even a marriage. If he expects you to be around him 24/7, he needs to schedule some time with same-sex friends, too. If he doesn't have any...you need to push him to address that.
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