non-virgin christians

[xonedayx]

This was somewhat raised in the teen forum.
http://www.christianforums.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16764
But I wanted to bring it here for some guidance. Im 20 and have been a christian for 2 years or so now and well, I spent my high school years having fun and while Im proud to say I haven't ever been drunk, high or even smoked a cigarette, I am not a virgin anymore either. A few people in the other thread said that a christian should only look for a virgin who saved themselves. For me, this is horrible. Im just not sure how to approach this or even what to think. Im just hoping for some guidance on the matter. I know my mate is already choosen for me and is waiting, it just dampens my spirits...

 

[Blackhawk]

xonedayx,

I am closing the thread here because it is a repeat thread but I encourage anyone that is in here and wants to seriously speak about this subject to go to the link xonedayx provided and discuss it in the tenn forum. However I ask that only people who are serious about the subject go there.

blackhawk