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Then why the jonathan and david reference? Is that even a debate point? Or does it just shift the focus?
All of a sudden everyone has super homo-sensors when it comes to those passages, even though it has nothing to do with same-sex sex.
Not to shift the focus, just that I find that particular Bible reference interesting in regard to same sex love.

So now if I have a close relationship with another guy (non sexual), I have to worry about being called gay by people on both sides of the fence ^_^:p
Would you say that you love that person "as your own soul"?, and greater than that of women? why even compare that to the opposite sex? that is why I find that Biblical reference interesting.
 
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If you are truely saved it will be seen by our works the Bible says, and part of those works is confession and repentance. If we don't have those things one would have to wonder if they truely have surrender their life to the Lord.
Yes, but all I'm saying is that the works are not what keep you saved. I don't believe anyone is qualified to judge someone, as many fall away and come back.




Why would they disprove Eternal Security and why would I want to?:scratch:
Not all believe in Eternal Security. Do a few Google searches, and you will find sites put up that think they have "disproved" it. I'm sure there are books and scholars that don't all agree with it.




By saying convert are you meaning convert to a denomination or are you meaning salvation?
Convert them away from practicing their sexual orientation. Conversion to celibacy or to "healing" for the same sex.
This would be to grow the Kingdom of God by helping to show how we all are sinners and in need of a Saviour. If you call that an agenda, then yes the Lord gave me an agenda, and I will do my best to allow the Lord to use me for this.
Yet one could follow that agenda, without trying to divert people from their sexual orientation.

Let's see, since I believe that homosexuality is a sin, then that would put me on that list of people you say are bigots and have a religious agenda. So that would mean that it was a personnel attack, wouldn't it?:confused:
Uhh no...a personal attack would be that I call you directly a bigot, which would be against the rules of this forum. I have not called anyone a bigot, I just say that it is a form of bigotry, whether intentional or not.



If someones sexual orientation is a sin, then it is no more a discrediting than it is to tell a liar, murderer, adulterer, etc. that what they are doing is a sin. So wanting and praying that someone is able to see that they are doing something that the Bible says will keep them from inheriting the Kingdom of God, is hateful, bigotry and a religious agenda?
Those are all part of the 10 Commandments...the very fact that you relate a harmless orientation to those harmful behaviors, actually proves all the more to me why I believe what I do.



It also makes it clear that the great deceiver is also working hard to keep people from coming to the saving knowledge of the Lord. :( :cry:
...I have yet to see that with gays and lesbians who love Jesus. Go on believing that, though.
They, according to the scriptures are "given over" to their own desires/lusts, because that is what the word says happens. This isn't something I made up, as shown, it is me repeating the teaching given us to help us follow the will of God.

Yet, Romans 1 only addresses a form of same sex lust, and not love. It DOES NOT address same sex, loving, monogamous relationships. It also addresses people going against their own natural instincts and dispositions, NOT the laws of nature. AS mentioned, the prevailing practice was a form of same sex idolatry pagan practice. Romans 1 does not condemn all forms of homosexuality.
 
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Yes, but all I'm saying is that the works are not what keep you saved. I don't believe anyone is qualified to judge someone, as many fall away and come back.

We aren't talking of stumbling, we are talking about someone that refuses to face, confess and repent of sin in their lives.

Not all believe in Eternal Security. Do a few Google searches, and you will find sites put up that think they have "disproved" it. I'm sure there are books and scholars that don't all agree with it.

So why are we suddenly talking about what others approve or disprove about Eternal Security? You stated that the scriptures I posted didn't disprove it, and I ask why they would when I wasn't trying to disprove it?:confused:


Convert them away from practicing their sexual orientation. Conversion to celibacy or to "healing" for the same sex.

Pointing out that something is a sin that will keep you from inheriting the Kingdom of God, and stating that God can take away all our sinful acts isn't anything more than trying to increase the Kingdom by doing what The Great Commission sent us out to do.

Yet one could follow that agenda, without trying to divert people from their sexual orientation.

Nope, they can't if it is a sin. You don't increase the Kingdom if the person isn't saved because they won't confess and repent of their sins, which again brings y\us to can a person really be saved if..........

Uhh no...a personal attack would be that I call you directly a bigot, which would be against the rules of this forum. I have not called anyone a bigot, I just say that it is a form of bigotry, whether intentional or not.

Not logical to say certain peoples belief make them have an agenda and are bigots, then say that my having those beliefs doesn't mean...........................nevermind

Those are all part of the 10 Commandments...the very fact that you relate a harmless orientation to those harmful behaviors, actually proves all the more to me why I believe what I do.

It isn't harmless but I won't bother to go through all the things that make me believe that, because we've already been down that road. Harmless or not doesn't really matter when it comes to if God believes it is a sin or not anyhow.

...I have yet to see that with gays and lesbians who love Jesus. Go on believing that, though.

I will go on believing what the word says, and what God has laid upon my heart and soul. Thanks for giving me premission to believe that, but it wasn't necessary because I always try to believe the Lord over any man's opinions or findings.

Yet, Romans 1 only addresses a form of same sex lust, and not love. It DOES NOT address same sex, loving, monogamous relationships. It also addresses people going against their own natural instincts and dispositions, NOT the laws of nature. AS mentioned, the prevailing practice was a form of same sex idolatry pagan practice. Romans 1 does not condemn all forms of homosexuality.

It doesn't address it because it is as it is discribed to be in Romans 1, which has nothing to do with a loving monogamous relationship.

As stated so many times by so many including the 18 Bible Scholars I gave (can get more but wouldn't matter), it is because of their idolatry that they were given over to their own lusts and hearts desires. When that happened one of the sins that they desired was homosexuality.

Plainly stated in the studies by so many Bible Scholars, taking the context and time into consideration as they studied the Greek writings.

So you are right it didn't have anything to do with anything but the sins that their hearts ...........

IN THE LUSTS OF THEIR HEARTS TO IMPURITY: en tais epithumiais ton kardion auton eis akatharsian:
Note "in" gives the picture of their being literally entrapped IN their lusts, virtually immersed IN them. Godet comparing the preposition "in" (en) and the subsequent preposition (eis) writes that...

Jeremiah said "The heart is more deceitful than all else and is desperately sick" (Jeremiah 17:9) And thus the heart of man's problem is our unregenerate heart. The "lusts of their hearts" are those wicked desires that originate from their evil hearts or which their hearts produced.

What is the "danger" of being given over in the the lusts of one's heart? Jesus explained that
"out of the heart come (present tense = continually) evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, slanders. These are the things which defile the man..." (see also Ge6:5; 8:21; Pr4:23; 6:14; 22:15;Jer17:9; Mk7:21-23; Ro3:10-19; 7:18; 8:7,8; Gal5:19-21; Ep2:1-3; Titu3:2-6)

Romans (1:24-32) describes the downward spiral of abandonment of the Truth about God in the life of men, focusing very specifically on what happens when God abandons man. (cf to the degraded, depraved, despicable days of Judges when men did what was right in their own eyes > Jdg2:14, 19, 21).

Paul writing to the Colossians based on their position in Christ Who was now their life they must
"Therefore consider the members of (their) earthly body as dead to immorality, impurity (akatharsia), passion, evil desire, and greed, which amounts to idolatry. For it is on account of these things that the wrath of God will come,." (See exposition of Colossians 3:5) Though the outpouring of God's wrath in its fulness is a matter of the future fulfillment, a foretaste will be experienced by the impure even here and now.


Idolatry is a factor, but that is because anything we desire more than God is just that, as shown above.
 
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Not to shift the focus, just that I find that particular Bible reference interesting in regard to same sex love.
the act in question is not same-sex love, its same-sex sex, lets not try to distort the difference please.



Would you say that you love that person "as your own soul"?, and greater than that of women? why even compare that to the opposite sex? that is why I find that Biblical reference interesting.

Possibly. Growing up I can remember some terms that our circle of friends used to signify that our friendships were put above our relationships with women. Sexuality shouldn't even come into question with this, as there are plenty of modern day examples of relationships of this nature. On my mothers side of my family I have lots of aunts and uncles, and even more cousins, yet I share no blood line with them at all.

I personally saw the emphasis on Jonathan's devotion to David as a sign that Jonathan was acting in God's will of David being Saul's successor instead of himself. In his actions, he showed that his love was greater than his strive to be king.

Once again, has nothing to do with same-sex sex.
 
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the act in question is not same-sex love, its same-sex sex, lets not try to distort the difference please.

This point is neither here nor there. Yes, there is a difference between same sex love and sex, but that wasn't my point. I never brought up the point of sex, you anti-gay arguers love to make everything about sex.





Possibly. Growing up I can remember some terms that our circle of friends used to signify that our friendships were put above our relationships with women.
There isn't any point in bringing that up, you may as well state that about the same gender. Why the comparison to the opposite sex? That isn't a common point.


Sexuality shouldn't even come into question with this, as there are plenty of modern day examples of relationships of this nature. On my mothers side of my family I have lots of aunts and uncles, and even more cousins, yet I share no blood line with them at all.

I don't get what point of bringing up relatives has to do with loving one as their own soul.

I personally saw the emphasis on Jonathan's devotion to David as a sign that Jonathan was acting in God's will of David being Saul's successor instead of himself. In his actions, he showed that his love was greater than his strive to be king.

Once again, I never said that their relationship was sexual, however, I did find the comparison interesting. No one can say whether their relationship was sexual or not.



Once again, has nothing to do with same-sex sex.

There isn't any proof either way that the relationship wasn't sexual...but once again, I didn't make the argument about sex or bring that up.
 
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We aren't talking of stumbling, we are talking about someone that refuses to face, confess and repent of sin in their lives.
I believe that can be one and the same at times for people. Falling away...do you have a certain time frame on that?



So why are we suddenly talking about what others approve or disprove about Eternal Security? You stated that the scriptures I posted didn't disprove it, and I ask why they would when I wasn't trying to disprove it?:confused:
You asked me why you would want to disprove Eternal Security, so I mentioned that there are people that try to do that, which is all. If continuous repentance is necessary for salvation in your opinion, then how the heck could you be an eternal security believer? if one doesn't repent of some sin, they could go to hell, hence they aren't secure.




Pointing out that something is a sin that will keep you from inheriting the Kingdom of God, and stating that God can take away all our sinful acts isn't anything more than trying to increase the Kingdom by doing what The Great Commission sent us out to do.
Are you clinging on a translation in 1 Cor. 6:9? did you even bother reading the website link that shows the word definition is unknown?

http://www.religioustolerance.org/homarsen.htm




Nope, they can't if it is a sin. You don't increase the Kingdom if the person isn't saved because they won't confess and repent of their sins, which again brings y\us to can a person really be saved if..........
We all sin, do you believe that you have repented for EVERY sin you have ever committed? it doesn't mean that a person isn't saved if they are a gay or lesbian.


Not logical to say certain peoples belief make them have an agenda and are bigots, then say that my having those beliefs doesn't mean...........................nevermind
As I stated, anyone who sees a person's sexual expression in their orientation as a sin, is isolating a sex act from an orientation. I'm not excluding you or anyone.



It isn't harmless but I won't bother to go through all the things that make me believe that, because we've already been down that road. Harmless or not doesn't really matter when it comes to if God believes it is a sin or not anyhow.
If you want to whip out the false statistics again, go ahead. The fact of the matter is, we would've seen some secular research from the credible mental health foundations to back negative research, if it wasn't just about a religious agenda. Don't say that I am putting the mental health foundations above God's Word, because that isn't my point.

I will go on believing what the word says, and what God has laid upon my heart and soul. Thanks for giving me premission to believe that, but it wasn't necessary because I always try to believe the Lord over any man's opinions or findings.

...you will go on believing the INTERPRETATION of what you believe the Word says.


It doesn't address it because it is as it is discribed to be in Romans 1, which has nothing to do with a loving monogamous relationship.
The only thing that matters IS a monogamous relationship.

As stated so many times by so many including the 18 Bible Scholars I gave (can get more but wouldn't matter), it is because of their idolatry that they were given over to their own lusts and hearts desires. When that happened one of the sins that they desired was homosexuality.
There still isn't any proof that all forms of homosexuality are condemned by Romans 1. It states these people went against their natural dispositions and natural instincts (phusis and phusikos), so these couldn'tve been gays or lesbians to start.
Through their pagan idolatry worship, they abandoned their own sexual orientation (heterosexuality).
 
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This point is neither here nor there. Yes, there is a difference between same sex love and sex, but that wasn't my point. I never brought up the point of sex, you anti-gay arguers love to make everything about sex.
sex is where the condemnation lies, why wouldn't it be the focal point of arguments ? To make statements about same-sex monogamous loving etc relationships is a blanket statement, as it implies sexual conduct/misconduct but does not necessarily require it..





There isn't any point in bringing that up, you may as well state that about the same gender. Why the comparison to the opposite sex? That isn't a common point.
and a homosexual twist by modern society is valid how? The comment about the women was made as a way to show how much he truly cared, that he cared for david even moreso than women, but it does not anywhere state that he lusted for, or anything of that nature.



I don't get what point of bringing up relatives has to do with loving one as their own soul.
would you take a bullet for someone close to you? that is what loving one as their own soul is about.


Once again, I never said that their relationship was sexual, however, I did find the comparison interesting. No one can say whether their relationship was sexual or not.
Well, at the least we can prove that he wasn't homosexual, unless of course he was a closet homosexual living out a totally hetero life. But wait a minute, God knows what goes on in closets, so if David had homosexual tendencies then it would've been addressed. It's safe to say that homosexual intercourse/relationships during the time of the ancient jews was forbidden, so if there was something of that nature I would expect the supporting scripture to mention their relationship in a sexual manner at all.





There isn't any proof either way that the relationship wasn't sexual...but once again, I didn't make the argument about sex or bring that up.[/quote]
 
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This point is neither here nor there. Yes, there is a difference between same sex love and sex, but that wasn't my point. I never brought up the point of sex, you anti-gay arguers love to make everything about sex.
sex is where the condemnation lies, why wouldn't it be the focal point of arguments ? To make statements about same-sex monogamous loving etc relationships is a blanket statement, as it implies sexual conduct/misconduct but does not necessarily require it..





There isn't any point in bringing that up, you may as well state that about the same gender. Why the comparison to the opposite sex? That isn't a common point.
and a homosexual twist by modern society is valid how? The comment about the women was made as a way to show how much he truly cared, that he cared for david even moreso than women, but it does not anywhere state that he lusted for, or anything of that nature.



I don't get what point of bringing up relatives has to do with loving one as their own soul.
would you take a bullet for someone close to you? that is what loving one as their own soul is about.


Once again, I never said that their relationship was sexual, however, I did find the comparison interesting. No one can say whether their relationship was sexual or not.
Well, at the least we can prove that he wasn't homosexual, unless of course he was a closet homosexual living out a totally hetero life. But wait a minute, God knows what goes on in closets, so if David had homosexual tendencies then it would've been addressed. It's safe to say that homosexual intercourse/relationships during the time of the ancient jews was forbidden, so if there was something of that nature I would expect the supporting scripture to mention their relationship in a sexual manner at all.





There isn't any proof either way that the relationship wasn't sexual...but once again, I didn't make the argument about sex or bring that up.
No but you are mixing the 2, there is no condemnation for same-sex love, we both agree on that. Love and sexual actions are different things.
 
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I think the problem here is some like myself believe the message of this church that God hates people is as wrong as the message that same-sex unions are right. Both can be tested wrong against the Bible. However whilst I cant see the motivation of this churches presentation as loving, I would point out that Jesus said of those who perished when the tower in Siloam fell on them—
"do you think they were more guilty than all the others living in Jerusalem? I tell you, no! But unless you repent, you too will all perish." I wonder what people would be saying if their son had died when the tower collapsed.

You see the problem here is whilst I dont think either same-sex unions or picketing funerals arre right according to the Biblical account of God, the gay and lesbian lobby are convinced the actions or this church are so unacceptable they need to be punished. Thats self righteousness.
 
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I believe that can be one and the same at times for people. Falling away...do you have a certain time frame on that?

Why would I have a time frame for something that we are told only GOD knows, but not having a time frame doesn't mean we can't see those things we are warned to watch for happening. I don't know how much worse it will get or when the Lord will say enough, I just know we are told to watch for these things and to not lose hope, but draw near to the Lord and He will draw near to us.

You asked me why you would want to disprove Eternal Security, so I mentioned that there are people that try to do that, which is all. If continuous repentance is necessary for salvation in your opinion, then how the heck could you be an eternal security believer? if one doesn't repent of some sin, they could go to hell, hence they aren't secure.

Continued repentence isn't necessary for salvation, but for the relationship and walk with the Lord that He wants to have with us.

Again, I will ask you to stop with the false witnessing against me. It doesn't matter how much you try to make people think I am saying things that I am not, if they are really seeking the truth they will see through your attempts.


Are you clinging on a translation in 1 Cor. 6:9? did you even bother reading the website link that shows the word definition is unknown?

http://www.religioustolerance.org/homarsen.htm

I am clinging to the word of God and taking it as a whole and in context.

I have read their opinion, yes.

“Don’t kid yourselves about this fact,” Paul warns, “because sinners will not inherit the kingdom of heaven.” Sinners include those who commit sexual sin outside of marriage (idolaters), those who serve other gods of various kinds (idolaters), those who commit sexual sins against their partner in marriage (adulterers), passive (effeminate) and active (homosexuals) sexual deviates. Those excluded from heaven are thieves, those who lust for what others possess (the covetous), alcoholics (drunkards), those who speak against others (revilers) and con artists (swindlers). This is a sampling of those whom no one expects to find in heaven, and rightly so. Heaven is a holy place, because God dwells there. Consequently, unholy people will not be there.
The Corinthian church includes those who are characterized by all of these sins. But when they were saved, this became a past, which should be forgotten and forsaken. Salvation includes repentance. Repentance means that we not only agree with God that we are sinners, doomed to eternal torment, and that Christ’s righteousness will save us, but also that we turn from a life of sin to a life of righteousness. Of course this does not mean that we will live a life of sinless perfection. But neither does it mean that we can keep on living in sin, as we once did while we were unsaved. Salvation is the process of turning from darkness to light, from death to life, from sin to righteousness. Salvation means that we should never consider continuing on in sin, even though God’s grace is greater than all our sin (see Romans 6:1ff.).

This is a sobering thought, is it not? The gospel is about sinners who are turned from sin to righteousness. The gospel is about turning away from the sins which once dominated us. It is one of the greatest comforts for the Christian. What we were as unbelievers, we are not now as Christians. Our sins of the past are not only forgiven, they are forgotten by God.

http://www.bible.org/page.php?page_id=789

I really like the whole article, but it wasn't all relevent, but if someone is studying 1 Corinthians you might want to read over Bob Deffinbaugh's thoughts.

I realize this has nothing to do with the words in question, but just thought it was good. I will look up some of the sites about the words and post later.

We all sin, do you believe that you have repented for EVERY sin you have ever committed? it doesn't mean that a person isn't saved if they are a gay or lesbian.

Yes, we all sin, and I and other have pointed that out many times.

Do I think I have repented of every sin, I hope I have but can never say for sure. I do pray that if something I have done or am doing is not in His will to please show me, and there have been times, more then I would like to count, that He has answered those prayers with yes, this and this or that and that. I'm glad at those times I had grown enough that I was able to be told and not just given a bottle of milk and told we will talk about it later.


As I stated, anyone who sees a person's sexual expression in their orientation as a sin, is isolating a sex act from an orientation. I'm not excluding you or anyone.

I have also stated that I am not sure that someone who has SSA is sinning if they haven't done the acts associated with those feelings. Another thing I would like to point out as a reminder is that looking at someone with lust is the same as doing the act, according to God, and since I know it can be hard for hetrosexuals to not do that type of looking i don't believe it wouldn't be easy for homosexuals either.

If you want to whip out the false statistics again, go ahead. The fact of the matter is, we would've seen some secular research from the credible mental health foundations to back negative research, if it wasn't just about a religious agenda. Don't say that I am putting the mental health foundations above God's Word, because that isn't my point.

Your point is that even though we have to live in this world for now, and that we aren't to be a part of it while we are here you still feel that non-christian organization findings have some weight in this issue.

Lets look at 1 Corinthians 6, and some of the other important things found there that are read over but maybe not understood because of verse 9.

Paul’s Indictment
(6:1)


1 Does any one of you, when he has a case against his neighbor, dare to go to law before the unrighteous, and not before the saints?
Are the Christians in Corinth thinking and behaving in terms of civil law? Then Paul will present them with an indictment in verse 1 of chapter 6. Paul has been exceedingly gentle in the previous chapters, only indirectly introducing the problem of divisions in the church. Now, Paul is becoming very specific and reveals that he is most distressed. The blood must be rushing to Paul’s face as he writes, “How dare you go to law before the unrighteous when you have a dispute with a fellow-believer and not go before the church?”
Several things cause Paul to be greatly distressed by the Corinthians’ conduct. First, disputes are erupting between believers in the church. The saints are at odds with one another. The term “neighbor” in verse 1 may appear to be general, but in the context of the entire passage it is clear that Paul is speaking specifically of Christians who are taking fellow-believers to court (see verse 6). Second, these disputes between believers are being taken to the secular courts by these Corinthian believers. Third, unrighteous (that is, unbelieving) judges are being asked to arbitrate between Christians. Fourth, when these disputes are taken before unbelieving judges, the whole ugly ordeal is carried out before the curious eyes of unbelieving spectators. The world gets to watch these Christians fight with one another in court. Fifth, these disputes have not been taken to the church, where they belong.
I understand all of what Paul has been saying in verse 1 in the light of our Lord’s teaching in Matthew 18:15-20 and Paul’s teaching in 1 Corinthians 5. If a brother has a dispute or an offense with another brother, this should first be addressed personally and privately, one to one. If this does not bring about reconciliation and harmony, then one or two witnesses must be brought along. If this does not result in repentance and reconciliation, then the matter should be taken to the whole church. If the belligerent party does not heed the admonition of the whole church, the wayward saint must be expelled from the fellowship of the church.
Disputes between believers should be resolved as privately as possible within the church, unless the wayward saint chooses to disregard the church, in which case that individual should be publicly excommunicated. Instead of these two individuals at Corinth going through this process, they have taken their grievances to the local courts to seek a judgment from an unbelieving judge. Paul is shocked and greatly distressed by this approach.

If we aren't suppose to take things to non-believers in law suits should we also not be taking the opinions of things that should be settled in the church, such as what is a sin and what isn't to the church and not the world?


...you will go on believing the INTERPRETATION of what you believe the Word says.

I will prayerfully continue to study the Word of God, and I will continue to pray for wisdom and understanding, as we are instructed to in His Word. If someday He shows me that I have been mistaken about my understanding of these things, then I will change the stand I am taking now.

Do I believe that day will come? To be honest, no I don't, but that doesn't mean that I have closed my mind to the fact that it could, or that I will become double-minded about it either.



The only thing that matters IS a monogamous relationship.

Scripture please.

There still isn't any proof that all forms of homosexuality are condemned by Romans 1. It states these people went against their natural dispositions and natural instincts (phusis and phusikos), so these couldn'tve been gays or lesbians to start.
Through their pagan idolatry worship, they abandoned their own sexual orientation (heterosexuality).

Yes, there is proof that the natural disposition is for a man to be with a woman and a woman with a man. Yet, just because that is what has been since the creation and the only example that God and Jesus spoke of as the approved way...........well that isn't good enough or clear enough for some.

Yep they abandoned their own sexual orientation, and the only orientation spoke of by God and Jesus. They turned from that natural way they were supposed to be, and went with the sinful lusts that were in their hearts. This continues even today, except now we try and say that it isn't that they are giving in to the sinful lust, but that they are exploring their sexuality.

Romans 1 is clear and plain, and lit eaves nothing to the imagination what will happen when the Lord allows us to do it our way, and not His.

These very facts continually lead me back to the "gave over" subject that we have discussed already. Mainly because it explains why things that are so clearly shown, are not seen.
 
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Well, at the least we can prove that he wasn't homosexual, unless of course he was a closet homosexual living out a totally hetero life. But wait a minute, God knows what goes on in closets, so if David had homosexual tendencies then it would've been addressed. It's safe to say that homosexual intercourse/relationships during the time of the ancient jews was forbidden, so if there was something of that nature I would expect the supporting scripture to mention their relationship in a sexual manner at all.

It is clear that David was punished for his adultery and for his murder, but as you stated even though the laws plainly stated that homsexuality was a sin, he wasn't punished for this. Very good point.
 
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Continued repentence isn't necessary for salvation, but for the relationship and walk with the Lord that He wants to have with us. [/COLOR]

Again, I will ask you to stop with the false witnessing against me. It doesn't matter how much you try to make people think I am saying things that I am not, if they are really seeking the truth they will see through your attempts.

My attempts at what??? you are the one accusing me of false witnessing, yet I don't see any of that here. I was trying to point out the difference between repentance and salvation, yet you would have to prove I INTENTIONALLY tried to make you say something you didn't. Sheesh, that hasn't happened once, so why don't you just give people the benefit of the doubt that perhaps you were misunderstood? What agenda could that possibly accomplish by me making you seem like you are saying something you aren't when eternal security isn't even the topic of this thread?




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COLOR=blue]I am clinging to the word of God and taking it as a whole and in context. [/COLOR]

I have read their opinion, yes.

“Don’t kid yourselves about this fact,” Paul warns, “because sinners will not inherit the kingdom of heaven.” Sinners include those who commit sexual sin outside of marriage (idolaters), those who serve other gods of various kinds (idolaters), those who commit sexual sins against their partner in marriage (adulterers), passive (effeminate) and active (homosexuals) sexual deviates. Those excluded from heaven are thieves, those who lust for what others possess (the covetous), alcoholics (drunkards), those who speak against others (revilers) and con artists (swindlers). This is a sampling of those whom no one expects to find in heaven, and rightly so. Heaven is a holy place, because God dwells there. Consequently, unholy people will not be there.
The Corinthian church includes those who are characterized by all of these sins. But when they were saved, this became a past, which should be forgotten and forsaken. Salvation includes repentance. Repentance means that we not only agree with God that we are sinners, doomed to eternal torment, and that Christ’s righteousness will save us, but also that we turn from a life of sin to a life of righteousness. Of course this does not mean that we will live a life of sinless perfection. But neither does it mean that we can keep on living in sin, as we once did while we were unsaved. Salvation is the process of turning from darkness to light, from death to life, from sin to righteousness. Salvation means that we should never consider continuing on in sin, even though God’s grace is greater than all our sin (see Romans 6:1ff.).

This is a sobering thought, is it not? The gospel is about sinners who are turned from sin to righteousness. The gospel is about turning away from the sins which once dominated us. It is one of the greatest comforts for the Christian. What we were as unbelievers, we are not now as Christians. Our sins of the past are not only forgiven, they are forgotten by God.

http://www.bible.org/page.php?page_id=789

I really like the whole article, but it wasn't all relevent, but if someone is studying 1 Corinthians you might want to read over Bob Deffinbaugh's thoughts.

I realize this has nothing to do with the words in question, but just thought it was good. I will look up some of the sites about the words and post later.
The only thing in question is the word itself, as it relates to the passage.



Yes, we all sin, and I and other have pointed that out many times.

Do I think I have repented of every sin, I hope I have but can never say for sure. I do pray that if something I have done or am doing is not in His will to please show me, and there have been times, more then I would like to count, that He has answered those prayers with yes, this and this or that and that. I'm glad at those times I had grown enough that I was able to be told and not just given a bottle of milk and told we will talk about it later.
So you would agree, that if you don't repent of every sin, you could still go to heaven, right? as you said you believe that repentance is necessary for the walk, but not for entry to heaven? correct me if I'm wrong so I don't get the "false accusation/false witness" card that you play.








Your point is that even though we have to live in this world for now, and that we aren't to be a part of it while we are here you still feel that non-christian organization findings have some weight in this issue.
Absolutely. Two reasons among many, because there lies the concrete proof that reparative therapy is dangerous (I know you said you don't endorse this), and that change isn't possible.

If we aren't suppose to take things to non-believers in law suits should we also not be taking the opinions of things that should be settled in the church, such as what is a sin and what isn't to the church and not the world?

I don't understand your point of bringing that up. I never claimed to you that I was ignorant on the motivations you people have on preaching against gays and lesbians, but I still believe it's wrong.

I will prayerfully continue to study the Word of God, and I will continue to pray for wisdom and understanding, as we are instructed to in His Word. If someday He shows me that I have been mistaken about my understanding of these things, then I will change the stand I am taking now.
Well, it probably won't happen, but you are entitled to your opinion. People get set in their ways...




Scripture please.
What scripture is needed? do you not see the difference between a sex practice in pagan worship such as orgies (Romans 1), and a monogamous life long partnership? What scripture is needed? orgies are wrong in any orientation.


Yes, there is proof that the natural disposition is for a man to be with a woman and a woman with a man. Yet, just because that is what has been since the creation and the only example that God and Jesus spoke of as the approved way...........well that isn't good enough or clear enough for some.

You are STILL either ignoring the point...gays and lesbians have a natural disposition to the same sex. The passage DOES NOT address "the natural disposition", but of the individual's natural disposition!

Yep they abandoned their own sexual orientation, and the only orientation spoke of by God and Jesus. They turned from that natural way they were supposed to be, and went with the sinful lusts that were in their hearts. This continues even today, except now we try and say that it isn't that they are giving in to the sinful lust, but that they are exploring their sexuality.
Not buying it, there's no proof from this passage that these people "abandoned the sexual orientation that was given to them by Jesus", which implies all were born heterosexual.

These very facts continually lead me back to the "gave over" subject that we have discussed already. Mainly because it explains why things that are so clearly shown, are not seen. [/COLOR]
Most common argument of a fundamentalist. Something that is so "obvious" is missed, because one is not saved or is blind. I can easily say that was is obvious is missed too, which is the pagan idolatry is done in mass orgies to a false god, which the historical context in Rome supports.
 
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sex is where the condemnation lies, why wouldn't it be the focal point of arguments ? To make statements about same-sex monogamous loving etc relationships is a blanket statement, as it implies sexual conduct/misconduct but does not necessarily require it..
YOU make that the focal point of the argument...a sexual orientation CAN include sex, but isn't limited to that alone, which also includes romantic feelings.






and a homosexual twist by modern society is valid how? The comment about the women was made as a way to show how much he truly cared, that he cared for david even moreso than women, but it does not anywhere state that he lusted for, or anything of that nature.
You are using your own assumption to draw that conclusion...just as one would on either side of the fence.


would you take a bullet for someone close to you? that is what loving one as their own soul is about.
It could be, but not necessarily...

Well, at the least we can prove that he wasn't homosexual, unless of course he was a closet homosexual living out a totally hetero life. But wait a minute, God knows what goes on in closets, so if David had homosexual tendencies then it would've been addressed.

Addressed? the Bible would never mention "homosexual tendencies", as a sexual orientation is not addressed! Not everything is written in the Bible anyways! Sexuality isn't all one way anyways, he could've been bisexual.


It's safe to say that homosexual intercourse/relationships during the time of the ancient jews was forbidden, so if there was something of that nature I would expect the supporting scripture to mention their relationship in a sexual manner at all.

As mentioned, arguments based upon silence aren't good on either side of the fence. That is why I have never have stated anything as fact.



No but you are mixing the 2, there is no condemnation for same-sex love, we both agree on that. Love and sexual actions are different things.

However, romantic love IS different. I never said that they were in love, but I was just pointing out that I thought it was interesting the comparison to women, and the said verses in combination.
 
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Good morning dave,

YOU make that the focal point of the argument...a sexual orientation CAN include sex, but isn't limited to that alone, which also includes romantic feelings.
Sure it can, but thats not the subject. It's like saying that murder must be O.K. because of the self-defense clause. The subject is whether homosexual sex is a sin or not, any other angles to that just move the focus.

One can deeply love another regardless of their sex, there is no sin in that.



You are using your own assumption to draw that conclusion...just as one would on either side of the fence.
My assumptions also make me feel saddened that a relationship between two members of the same sex is contrived as possibly sexual only due to the intimate nature of it. You have to admit that your view is egged on by modern society.


It could be, but not necessarily...
Once again, if your view is that men exhibiting any actions that are not definitively masculine then the door opens to homosexuality.


Addressed? the Bible would never mention "homosexual tendencies", as a sexual orientation is not addressed! Not everything is written in the Bible anyways! Sexuality isn't all one way anyways, he could've been bisexual.
No, sexual "orientation" was never addressed. Why? Because people didn't identify themselves according to their desires. Just because sexual orientation is not addressed does not make same-sex sex a unmentioned topic. Sure, not everything is in the bible, but how does that justify same-sex sex? Could he have been bisexual? Anything's possible, but its not likely given there is no evidence for it. Honestly I believe most gay men were considered bisexual anyway, since from what i've read, often they married and had children. Which i can understand completely, because homosexuals want children as much as heterosexuals do. The only difference is that in a homosexual relationship it is impossible to produce children, at least between the 2 involved.






As mentioned, arguments based upon silence aren't good on either side of the fence. That is why I have never have stated anything as fact.
it's not an argument based on silence. Take a look at david's life, his ups and downs are recorded in great detail. His adulterous relationship with bathsheba was recorded, so why not an adulterous relationship with his friend also? (if it happened)





However, romantic love IS different. I never said that they were in love, but I was just pointing out that I thought it was interesting the comparison to women, and the said verses in combination.

I disagree, I believe they were in love. They loved each other very much. The comparison to women, just like the comparison to his own soul, to me shows the amount of love that he had for him. That kind of love goes beyond any type of sexuality anyway.
 
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My attempts at what??? you are the one accusing me of false witnessing, yet I don't see any of that here. I was trying to point out the difference between repentance and salvation, yet you would have to prove I INTENTIONALLY tried to make you say something you didn't. Sheesh, that hasn't happened once, so why don't you just give people the benefit of the doubt that perhaps you were misunderstood? What agenda could that possibly accomplish by me making you seem like you are saying something you aren't when eternal security isn't even the topic of this thread?

Maybe you should ask if that is what someone is saying instead of stating it, it would be alot easier to understand that someone is seeking clarification and compared to it looking like you are saying someone is saying something.

What agenda, that is laughable. How many times have you said that those who believe that homosexuality is a sin have an agenda? I believe I stated what your purpose was.

Again, if you want clarification, ask please.



The only thing in question is the word itself, as it relates to the passage.

I think that is what I said, isn't it? :scratch:

I stated that most of the article wasn't relevent, but thought it was a good article. I even stated that if someone was doing a study on 1 Corinthians they might find it interesting.

Believe it or not there are more scriptures to study and gain from then those that have to do with homosexuality.



So you would agree, that if you don't repent of every sin, you could still go to heaven, right? as you said you believe that repentance is necessary for the walk, but not for entry to heaven? correct me if I'm wrong so I don't get the "false accusation/false witness" card that you play.

Isn't it neat how a person will know that they are being ask a question, not stating something as fact, if they ask a question?

I would agree that if I sinned just before my death, and before I was able to ask for forgiveness that I still would be saved, and would go to heaven.

I don't agree that someone can refuse to believe that something is a sin, and ask for forgiveness for all other sins but that one. If a person is truely saved, but says they are never convicted of a sin they are doing, well it would be hard to believe that they truely had surrendered to the Lord.

It is real simple Dave, you keep saying that I am saying this or that when I am not. Again, if you are wanting clarification then ask, please. Secondly, I keep reading, on so many post by so many, that if you say homosexuality is a sin you are a hater, a bigot, have an agenda, etc. If someone says that is incorrect we then hear that wasn't meant for you, or why are you making this into something personal?

Lets see, if it is stated that those who believe homosexuality is a sin are haters, etc., and I believe homosexuality is a sin then why is it hard for you to see why a person would take it personal?

Absolutely. Two reasons among many, because there lies the concrete proof that reparative therapy is dangerous (I know you said you don't endorse this), and that change isn't possible.

No, you are right I don't indorse it, and in fact the Great Physician, Saviour, Deliver, King of Kings and Lord of Lords is the only answer in my opinion.

I don't understand your point of bringing that up. I never claimed to you that I was ignorant on the motivations you people have on preaching against gays and lesbians, but I still believe it's wrong.

This right here is why I keep saying the things about false witness. I never said anything about you saying you were ignorant on the motivations.

What I was pointing out was that if in those scriptures we are told not to sue or take to court one another, if we are brothers and sisters in Christ. Then wouldn't it be fair to say that we should let the courts, world, non-believers, etc. decide what is and isn't a sin? Such as votes that are going on in many states to make legal marriages for homosexuals, when God ordains marriages.

Jesus, himself said give to Caesar what belongs to him and to God what is His. There are many things that should be decided by the church (meaning Christ definition not meaning denomination), not the courts/government. It might have been ok when the Kings were annointed by God, by that isn't happening today.

Well, it probably won't happen, but you are entitled to your opinion. People get set in their ways...

So the Lord wouldn't open my eyes to see that I am wrong, because you don't think it has anything to do with prayerful study and prayer, because I am set in my ways?:confused:

If that is what you are saying, then boy I sure do waste alot of time everyday studying and praying. Dang and here I could have had a V-8:doh: .^_^

I believe the Lord is able not only to help all of us pull away from sins in our lives, but is also able to open eyes to see His truths. Even if a person is set in his ways and not the Lords ways.



What scripture is needed? do you not see the difference between a sex practice in pagan worship such as orgies (Romans 1), and a monogamous life long partnership? What scripture is needed? orgies are wrong in any orientation.

Show me a scripture that tells us that God created different sexual orientations, but only chose to speak of male and female relationships throughout the entire Bible.

Show me the scriptures that say that as long as it is a monogamous life long partnership you can be with anyone you want. When even again the only life long partnership that is spoke of in the entire Bible is male and female.

You are STILL either ignoring the point...gays and lesbians have a natural disposition to the same sex. The passage DOES NOT address "the natural disposition", but of the individual's natural disposition!

I'm not the one ignoring the point, because once again the only natural dispostion spoke of in the entire Bible is between male and female. All other dispostions are called sexual immorality, sin, etc.

Not buying it, there's no proof from this passage that these people "abandoned the sexual orientation that was given to them by Jesus", which implies all were born heterosexual.

You don't have to buy it, just like a person doesn't have to accept the free gift of salvation, that is called free choice. That is what is so neat about God. He could have made us robots. He could have stood over us scaring us all to follow Him, but instead He loved us first, drawing us to Himself. We can come dine with Him or not.

We just have to remember at the end of life we will have to accept what comes with the buying or ot buying stances.

Most common argument of a fundamentalist. Something that is so "obvious" is missed, because one is not saved or is blind. I can easily say that was is obvious is missed too, which is the pagan idolatry is done in mass orgies to a false god, which the historical context in Rome supports.


Some body missed that, your kidding right? I find that hard to believe because all I have ever seen missed was the facts that I have shown so many times.

Romans 1:24-25
24 Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves,
25 who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.

The facts that are missed are the meaning of the word Therefore/Wherefore, and the fact that it says ALSO. Showing that pagan idolatry was the reason (therefore) they were given up to that and (ALSO) to uncleanness, lust of their hearts, etc.
 
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to savedandhappy1 again.


And +reps for dave, for using the word 'sheesh' in a reply :D
Your reps don't do anything yet, lol.
 
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Maybe you should ask if that is what someone is saying instead of stating it, it would be alot easier to understand that someone is seeking clarification and compared to it looking like you are saying someone is saying something.

What agenda, that is laughable. How many times have you said that those who believe that homosexuality is a sin have an agenda? I believe I stated what your purpose was.

Again, if you want clarification, ask please.

That is my RIGHT to say that I believe that those here do have an agenda. Not sure what that has to do with false witnessing, but whatever. You say that I am saying something I'm not, yet half the time I never said the thing you accused ME of. For example, since I posted why I was against McArthur, you wrongly assumed that I threw out the rest of your Scholars. I never even said that they weren't valid because of him, but you assumed that.

I stated that most of the article wasn't relevent, but thought it was a good article. I even stated that if someone was doing a study on 1 Corinthians they might find it interesting.
I post the proof that the word definition is unknown. Instead of addressing that point, you seem to dodge it by posting something else. Do you have any idea how suspicious that looks?

Believe it or not there are more scriptures to study and gain from then those that have to do with homosexuality.
That may be true...but then again, what forum are we debating in? :confused:



I don't agree that someone can refuse to believe that something is a sin, and ask for forgiveness for all other sins but that one. If a person is truely saved, but says they are never convicted of a sin they are doing, well it would be hard to believe that they truely had surrendered to the Lord.
...either that or the argument on the other side is that what they are doing is not a sin to start.

It is real simple Dave, you keep saying that I am saying this or that when I am not. Again, if you are wanting clarification then ask, please. Secondly, I keep reading, on so many post by so many, that if you say homosexuality is a sin you are a hater, a bigot, have an agenda, etc. If someone says that is incorrect we then hear that wasn't meant for you, or why are you making this into something personal?
I never did make it into something it wasn't. If I made it personal, I would say you are a bigot against ME. This is why I say it is bigotry against gays and lesbians IN GENERAL. Do you understand the difference between personalizing something? However, I do make it personal when the debaters come in here judging MY walk with God, OR say I'm not saved...which happens repeatedly (not by you). These are also known as ad hominem attacks, which are not valid debate points.


Lets see, if it is stated that those who believe homosexuality is a sin are haters, etc., and I believe homosexuality is a sin then why is it hard for you to see why a person would take it personal?
You accuse me of saying something I didn't. Where did I call anyone a "hater"? I said it was bigotry, which is intolerance NOT necessarily hatered.



No, you are right I don't indorse it, and in fact the Great Physician, Saviour, Deliver, King of Kings and Lord of Lords is the only answer in my opinion.

Jesus is the answer, but there isn't any proof on any level that He "heals" people of homosexuality. There IS substantial proof that there hasn't been any "healing" ever taken place.


This right here is why I keep saying the things about false witness. I never said anything about you saying you were ignorant on the motivations.
You ask me "should we also not be taking the opinions of things that should be settled in the church, such as what is a sin and what isn't to the church and not the world?" it seems as if I don't already know why you do it.



What I was pointing out was that if in those scriptures we are told not to sue or take to court one another, if we are brothers and sisters in Christ. Then wouldn't it be fair to say that we should let the courts, world, non-believers, etc. decide what is and isn't a sin? Such as votes that are going on in many states to make legal marriages for homosexuals, when God ordains marriages.
I'm confused...what does this have to do with what we are talking about, maybe that is why you are accusing me of something I'm not saying. I don't get where you are going with this.

Jesus, himself said give to Caesar what belongs to him and to God what is His. There are many things that should be decided by the church (meaning Christ definition not meaning denomination), not the courts/government. It might have been ok when the Kings were annointed by God, by that isn't happening today.
You are getting into politics...separation of Church and state. Of course, I am against letting the Church decide, esp. if they have that conservative opinion against gay marriage! This is a Country that represents freedom of religion!



So the Lord wouldn't open my eyes to see that I am wrong, because you don't think it has anything to do with prayerful study and prayer, because I am set in my ways?:confused:
I really think it's best for any forum member to stay away from informing us what "the Lord told them", as arguments for their cause. I could say the Lord told me one thing, you could say another, etc.

I believe the Lord is able not only to help all of us pull away from sins in our lives, but is also able to open eyes to see His truths. Even if a person is set in his ways and not the Lords ways.
Yes, all things are possible with Christ. However, that doesn't mean it is going to happen.





Show me a scripture that tells us that God created different sexual orientations, but only chose to speak of male and female relationships throughout the entire Bible.
Arguments from silence are not good ones in any case. Sexual orientation DOES exist, yet isn't mentioned. Regardless of whether the Lord created it or not, orientation DOES exist.

Show me the scriptures that say that as long as it is a monogamous life long partnership you can be with anyone you want. When even again the only life long partnership that is spoke of in the entire Bible is male and female.
Once again, arguments from silence are not good on either side of the fence. So on that special note, please do show me the Scripture that says all marriages besides ones between males and females are not valid. Please do show me where the Bible addresses the idea that the sexes of the union are more important the relationship.



I'm not the one ignoring the point, because once again the only natural dispostion spoke of in the entire Bible is between male and female. All other dispostions are called sexual immorality, sin, etc.
Faulty notion..The Bible doesn't ever say that "all other dispositions are sexual immorality in regards to same sex relationships".



You don't have to buy it, just like a person doesn't have to accept the free gift of salvation, that is called free choice. That is what is so neat about God. He could have made us robots. He could have stood over us scaring us all to follow Him, but instead He loved us first, drawing us to Himself. We can come dine with Him or not.
I gave the reason why I wasn't buying what you said. It is because it's based upon the faulty premise that all are born straight to start.






Some body missed that, your kidding right? I find that hard to believe because all I have ever seen missed was the facts that I have shown so many times.
Romans 1:24-25
24 Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves,
25 who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.
Facts? what facts? You confuse "facts" with "interpretation". I am not disputing that they dishonored their bodies, obviously if you commit same sex pagan orgies (and heterosexual as proven in the history of Corinth). To do such a thing, would require using your body for a purpose that is against the Lord.


The facts that are missed are the meaning of the word Therefore/Wherefore, and the fact that it says ALSO. Showing that pagan idolatry was the reason (therefore) they were given up to that and (ALSO) to uncleanness, lust of their hearts, etc.
You base your faulty claim upon the idea that these words are missed, but they are not. The dishonoring came with the combination of sexual debauchery of idolatry w/the pagan orgy sex practices that included lust.
The fact that is missed is that there is no proof this passage condemns all forms of homosexual behavior.
 
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Sure it can, but thats not the subject. It's like saying that murder must be O.K. because of the self-defense clause. The subject is whether homosexual sex is a sin or not, any other angles to that just move the focus.
Not really...I'm not here to debate whether David and Jonathan had a sexual relationship or not, just pointing out a comparison. :scratch:






My assumptions also make me feel saddened that a relationship between two members of the same sex is contrived as possibly sexual only due to the intimate nature of it. You have to admit that your view is egged on by modern society.
...and your viewpoint is saddening due to the idea that two men making love to each other is a disgusting and sinful thing, therefore it couldn't possibly be true.


Once again, if your view is that men exhibiting any actions that are not definitively masculine then the door opens to homosexuality.
What does this have to do with masculinity?



No, sexual "orientation" was never addressed. Why? Because people didn't identify themselves according to their desires. Just because sexual orientation is not addressed does not make same-sex sex a unmentioned topic. Sure, not everything is in the bible, but how does that justify same-sex sex? Could he have been bisexual? Anything's possible, but its not likely given there is no evidence for it. Honestly I believe most gay men were considered bisexual anyway, since from what i've read, often they married and had children. Which i can understand completely, because homosexuals want children as much as heterosexuals do. The only difference is that in a homosexual relationship it is impossible to produce children, at least between the 2 involved.
As stated, I don't use the passage to justify same sex sex, you are the one trying to make it seem like I am. Once again, arguments from silence are useless for either side of the debate.



it's not an argument based on silence. Take a look at david's life, his ups and downs are recorded in great detail. His adulterous relationship with bathsheba was recorded, so why not an adulterous relationship with his friend also? (if it happened)
Not all David's actions are recorded. Is his entire relationship with Jonathan recorded, every minute? no. So yes, it is an argument based upon silence.






I disagree, I believe they were in love. They loved each other very much. The comparison to women, just like the comparison to his own soul, to me shows the amount of love that he had for him. That kind of love goes beyond any type of sexuality anyway.
While I do agree that a deep love doesn't need to be validated by sex, I still believe any argument made here about them is based upon assumption, which is why I don't argue that their relationship was ever sexual one way or the other.
 
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