grasping the after wind
That's grasping after the wind
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Well, I am giving you the evidence. You are free to evaluate it as you see fit.
Well, it wasn´t mine, but now I know what statement you are having in mind.
Since it doesn´t even try to be descriptive of facts I fail to see what sort of facts you are expecting.
As for the statement itself:
What do you think - if we´d made a survey asking the questions:
1. Would you like the world to be a better place? and
2. Are you willing to help make the world a better place?
What do you think the results would be, roughly?
Don't know and frankly don't care what people would answer on a survey. what would constitute making the world a better place in your mind? If we were to , rather than survey where many people answer disingenuously, actually know what people thought abot that we might find it more interesting.
This just to clarify why I think there needn´t be any authority to tell us to make the world a better place - it´s what the vast majority of us wants.
Is it? does the vast majority al;o agree on what would make the world a better place? The vast majority of pewople can be persuaded to agree with all kinds of vague nebulous statements especially when they have heard them repeated consistently over the course of their licves but when we get into the details things become a bit more complicated and people do not agree so readily.
As for persons who answer these questions "no", I suspect that not even a God saying that we should do it will change their attitude.
On this I can agree. Usually though they do not simply reject the advice of their authotrity figure but rationalize that their authority figure, despite seemingly contradictory evidence, really does agree with them.
Then I suggest you go back and re-read.
Stoill don't see it.
That´s great. So we can let go the entire "selfish vs. selfless" thing, and start looking where it is irrelevant for any given purpose (i.e. all cases where our interests are not in conflict).
If that is what you would like to do I won't object. It doesn't change the fact that people are by and large primarily concerned with their own welfare first and the welfare of others less so.
Yes, obviously.
Well, in my understanding two persons are mutually dependent on each other even though they might depend on each other in different ways.
How does that effect their morality? That is simply a symbiotic relationship where one party may or may not profit in a greater or lesser extent than the other. Also, there doi seem to be many relationships where one party benefits while the other party does not benefit or actually is harmed.
Yes, toddlers have a very limited and simple chart of needs.
But we are adults, and with growing age our needs get more complex.
(For example, you posit a need for morality - something a toddler feels no need for).
Did I posit a need for morality? I don't recall doing so. If I did I was obviously mistaken or inadvertently misrepresenting my own view on this. Morality would come under the heading of wants, not needs. We do not actually need anything but food, shelter and water. Everything else is a want. There is nothing wrong with having wants but to merely survive one does not need them.
An action that causes everyone´s needs to be met doesn´t even require us to think in categories such as "selfless/selfish".
There is no such single action.
I don´t see that, either. I guess that´s why it wasn´t what I said.
Admittedly, I am completely lost here. I have no idea what this has to do with anything. If it contains an important point relevant to our discussion, please elaborate.
Needs differ from non needs. Seems a simple enough point.
No, I can´t. That´s why I didn´t say it wasn´t. All I said was: It isn´t the "either - or" that you paraphrased it as:
It´s "either sociopath or empathy gifted", and you turned it into "either sociopath or saint".
So keep yuour own wording it still isn't an either or situation.
Well, the statement in question wasn´t a statement of fact, in the first place.
Are you just taking cheap shots at me now, or are you projecting your desires upon me?
I don´t know - I neither said nor meant to say that this is what I wish.
If it satisfies a need of theirs it´s entirely fine with me. I addressed the very opposite: that part that they experience and picture as not being in their own interest (but a sacrifice brought to me; and/or being in the interest of a higher authority).
Well, it is my experience that things done in this attitude don´t benefit me in a tangible way. That´s the very point. People who are willing to consider not only their but also my interests and needs (which, fortunately, is pretty much everyone I interact with in real life) might be interested in learning about my needs and interests, in the first place. That´s the reason I often tell them, and that´s probably the reason they usually don´t take offense from being provided with that bit of information.
No, the very opposite is the case, and that´s what I said.
I said nothing anywhere even close to what you are ascribing to me:
1. I didn´t say that others fulfilling their needs is a problem for me (in fact I said the very opposite: It is a problem for me when they do something "for me" that they feel is contrary to their interests),
2. I made no statement whatsoever about how I´d practically go about dealing with this problem; in particular I didn´t say anything about me rubbing it in as a token of their inferiority, and I didn´t say anything about making attempts to "deprave" them of anything,
3. nobody but you mentioned the idea of "superiority/inferiority" of persons, anyway.
These were entirely your ideas, and I am wondering why you are so determined to picture them as mine. Unfortunately, right from the top of my head, I can´t manage to come up with particularly charitable assumptions concerning your motives for doing that.
If I offended you I apologize.
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