Think about how much drama we keep ourselves free from by treating others with kindess and respect. Think about all the games we don't have to play when we find someone special. Us nice people are so far ahead of the game that we don't have to settle for the miserable people that don't want to be treated like there are special. I'm proud to be a nice guy. If I really love you, you are going to know it. I'll say sweet things, buy flowers randomly, treat you like a princess, and expect nothing in return. I'll also not afraid to poke fun at ya if you say or do something silly. Anyway, I totally reject the whole nice guys/girls finish last. People with that mindset need to up their self esteem levels and stop seeking people that want to be treated like crap.