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I was going to originally post this in the incel thread in the News And Current Events section, but I believe that thread has been beaten to death by now.
I do find this topic interesting, the concept of women (and sometimes men) being attracted to jerks, and in the more extreme cases just plain violent people. Men like Ted Bundy receiving a lot of love letters from women, and even marrying one while on trial. While he is on the more extreme side, I do view this sort of thing as being on a spectrum. Why is this? How prevalent do you believe this is?
On the flipside I have heard statements from men (and some women) that they find their nice demeanor often bores the opposite sex, and that they feel frustrated by this.
I do find this topic interesting, the concept of women (and sometimes men) being attracted to jerks, and in the more extreme cases just plain violent people. Men like Ted Bundy receiving a lot of love letters from women, and even marrying one while on trial. While he is on the more extreme side, I do view this sort of thing as being on a spectrum. Why is this? How prevalent do you believe this is?
On the flipside I have heard statements from men (and some women) that they find their nice demeanor often bores the opposite sex, and that they feel frustrated by this.