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Nice guy synodrome?

lunalinda

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Oh man...some of you guys are so much on the right trek when it comes to what a lot of women want in men that it's actually getting scary lol. Why scary? Because you're guys! It's too cool to see a guy being right on in figuring out what women want, or who at least try their darndest to do so, when I'm so used to see women being the ones who are of course right on. But dang...boilerblues, chino, supertech...and dangit...whoever else whose username escapes me (groan), you're doing good...keep it up hehe.
 
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sweetlambofgod said:
who on OC are u referring to?
You don't know Chino? Outcast kid? Friend of Adam's? The rebel? His name is Ryan on the show, but his nickname from the first season was "Chino".

BTW, the show is very unrealistic, too dramatic and unbelievable.

And somehow I just admitted that I watch it. Thank God for anonymity on the message board! :cool:
 
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lunalinda said:
Oh man...some of you guys are so much on the right trek when it comes to what a lot of women want in men that it's actually getting scary lol. Why scary? Because you're guys! It's too cool to see a guy being right on in figuring out what women want, or who at least try their darndest to do so, when I'm so used to see women being the ones who are of course right on. But dang...boilerblues, chino, supertech...and dangit...whoever else whose username escapes me (groan), you're doing good...keep it up hehe.
I can do ok with giving the right answers, application is another thing though. I have lots of great theories about relationships, I have yet to test them out. I'm sure God will once again humble me and show me how little I know, but I know God is preparing me for an incredible woman, I pray that we would be a blessing to each other.
 
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SuperTech said:
You don't know Chino? Outcast kid? Friend of Adam's? The rebel? His name is Ryan on the show, but his nickname from the first season was "Chino".

BTW, the show is very unrealistic, too dramatic and unbelievable.

And somehow I just admitted that I watch it. Thank God for anonymity on the message board! :cool:

Ryan Seth's friend you mean? I dont know Adam and I never heard "Chino" before lol. I love the show. Just started watchign it though, it is on the smae time as another show I liek tho so now I dunno what to do.
 
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sweetlambofgod said:
Ryan Seth's friend you mean?

Yes!

sweetlambofgod said:
I dont know Adam and I never heard "Chino" before lol. I love the show. Just started watchign it though, it is on the smae time as another show I liek tho so now I dunno what to do.

Oops. Seth's name in "real life" is Adam. Sorry about the mixup. If you watched the first season they constantly refered to Ryan as "Chino" as he came from the bad part of town or something.
 
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SuperTech said:
Yes!



Oops. Seth's name in "real life" is Adam. Sorry about the mixup. If you watched the first season they constantly refered to Ryan as "Chino" as he came from the bad part of town or something.

Really? I wished they kept his name as "Chino", it's such a nice sounding name.
 
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boilerblues said:
I can do ok with giving the right answers, application is another thing though. I have lots of great theories about relationships, I have yet to test them out. I'm sure God will once again humble me and show me how little I know, but I know God is preparing me for an incredible woman, I pray that we would be a blessing to each other.

Yes, application is the tough part. When anger, frustration, selfishness, and sin get in the way, often our ideals of treating a woman fly out the window. I dream often of caring for and loving a woman, making her out to be the best she can possibly be, yet as Paul says, As sure as Christ is with me, there also is sin waiting for me [paraphrase]. One concern of mine is that sin always seems to pollute a bfgf relationship, and that being already a very fragile thing...I'm sure many of us have felt the brunt of that. But I never will forget the first part... that Christ is with us!

I'm not sure if God is preparing me to serve and be with an incredible woman (though I'd be up for that), yet I sure know that he is preparing me to serve and be with a wonderful Jesus.
 
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