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PuNkChIcK

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hey,
Well as some of you know my mother died this morning. Now I'm home alone, because although I still keep in touch with my father he no longer lives with me. I have several choices, I can move in with my fiance, but i know then the temptation would be great. I can find an apartment and sell the house, or find an apartment and keep the house. I just don't know what I'm going to do, So I guess I'm asking for some prayer for direction on my part. It would be greatly appriciated.
 

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Again, sorry for your loss. You probably want to find a local accountant or someone you can trust to be sure your and her affairs are in order. Why sell the house if you have a place to live as long as you can pay utilities? I know this sounds "financial" rather than emotional supportive but someone has to help you think through this stuff so you don't end up making a bad decision. I also wouldn't go loaning anyone money or telling them if you came in to any as a result of this sad event. Keep such things as this to yourself. Take it day by day and it does get better with time. Try to keep a close group of support from your church or someone of faith. Take care.
 
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