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Hi there I'm new to all of this, in fact my daughter is just beginning the testing to find out what's going on (her hearing gets tested tomorrow). She's 4 1/2 and we're getting concerned as she doesn't really seem to be devolping normally mentally. I've been searching all over the net for like 2 hours now to try to find some kind of guide or warning signs to figure out if my daughter really does have a mental issue and if so how bad, also just wondering what she might have going on. I've found nothing of use from multiple Google searches, so I am hoping maybe you guys can help me.
Some of the red flags for me are:
She still is having trouble forming sentances / talking
Has a lot of trouble (sometimes) following simple directions and will start bawling out of frustration. <Like if I ask to pick sometihng up and I'm pointing at it, she can't figure out what I want, just as one example>
She didn't figure out how to dress herself until 4. And she can still not put her shoes on, except sandals.
Her drawings look very odd. She usually will draw people as two great big eyes at the top, no body, and legs and arms coming off of the eyes. I've never seen anything quite like it.
She has an obsession with taking her clothes off, luckily only in our home not in public.
If I ask her what we did today, she can not answer.
A lot of times when we ask her questions she looks at us blankly having no idea what we want her to say and then will come up with random things to answer us. (Usually it's soccer ball, God, or the title of whatever movie is her latest favorite)
She has no idea where she lives, address, phone number, even her last name. She only started telling people her name at about 3 1/2.
As you can see it's nothing major, but it's enough that we are worried. I did find some guides to 4 year old milestones today, and the ones that were more detailed she was missing a lot of those milestones. Not to mention she is just lacking a basic maturity. I was trying tot hink what age level she is at in comparison with our first daughter, and honestly she can't even be compared to our first daughter when she was 2. There's just something missing there, there's something very different from other kids her age.
Any help as to what you all think about this would be great (is she slow or not, and if so is there a paticular disorder?), and any ideas for a good website to go to for info would also be helpful. Thanks so much everyone!
Some of the red flags for me are:
She still is having trouble forming sentances / talking
Has a lot of trouble (sometimes) following simple directions and will start bawling out of frustration. <Like if I ask to pick sometihng up and I'm pointing at it, she can't figure out what I want, just as one example>
She didn't figure out how to dress herself until 4. And she can still not put her shoes on, except sandals.
Her drawings look very odd. She usually will draw people as two great big eyes at the top, no body, and legs and arms coming off of the eyes. I've never seen anything quite like it.
She has an obsession with taking her clothes off, luckily only in our home not in public.
If I ask her what we did today, she can not answer.
A lot of times when we ask her questions she looks at us blankly having no idea what we want her to say and then will come up with random things to answer us. (Usually it's soccer ball, God, or the title of whatever movie is her latest favorite)
She has no idea where she lives, address, phone number, even her last name. She only started telling people her name at about 3 1/2.
As you can see it's nothing major, but it's enough that we are worried. I did find some guides to 4 year old milestones today, and the ones that were more detailed she was missing a lot of those milestones. Not to mention she is just lacking a basic maturity. I was trying tot hink what age level she is at in comparison with our first daughter, and honestly she can't even be compared to our first daughter when she was 2. There's just something missing there, there's something very different from other kids her age.
Any help as to what you all think about this would be great (is she slow or not, and if so is there a paticular disorder?), and any ideas for a good website to go to for info would also be helpful. Thanks so much everyone!