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New Feature: Disable the "Add you as Buddy/Friend PM" option added

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If you don't want to know if people are adding you as a Buddy as you don't want to be Friends with them, just choose the "No" option in User CP, Options, Messaging. :) People can still add you but you won't know about it as you won't get a PM.
That was confusing at times for new members when it would keep sending everytime someone added and responded to a new friend pm. That is good. One question I have is will the people show on the friends list as I know without approval in the past they would not ???
 
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That was confusing at times for new members when it would keep sending everytime someone added and responded to a new friend pm. That is good. One question I have is will the people show on the friends list as I know without approval in the past they would not ???
Question... Bump?
 
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