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I wonder if that's because women are more likely to be abused or women are more likely to answer surveys like that.

I glanced through it, and the answers are relatively consistent with what we already know about how abuse manifests, how the abused person eventually feels as a result, and what to do about it. I do think it is helpful if someone is being abused but does not recognize it as abuse. I also think the evaluation can be helpful, even for those who are not being abused, as a way of measuring areas of strength and areas for potential growth, or actually finally recognizing the behaviour for what it is - abuse.
 
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Psychologists who study marriage-related issues face the problem of a higher percentage of women responding to surveys. Some men respond, but you have to ask yourself if there is a major self-selection bias. Maybe the men who respond to such surveys are different in a systematic way than the rest of the male population, which would be a serious threat to the validity of the research.
 
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I wonder if that's because women are more likely to be abused or women are more likely to answer surveys like that.

I glanced through it, and the answers are relatively consistent with what we already know about how abuse manifests, how the abused person eventually feels as a result, and what to do about it. I do think it is helpful if someone is being abused but does not recognize it as abuse. I also think the evaluation can be helpful, even for those who are not being abused, as a way of measuring areas of strength and areas for potential growth, or actually finally recognizing the behaviour for what it is - abuse.

No studies have shown that to be false. What is true however is men are less willing to admit to being abused or controlled.

Society looks down on that from men.
 
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