New and needing guidance

[SRAMS]

I dont want to go into great detail, but im 23 in the military and still currently married. I live in Okinawa Japan and just sent my wife home for something horrible she has done to me. I feel like I have no where to turn and I guess im looking for some support. I am a christian, and going through a hard time. I seen this page and felt that this is a good place for me to turn.

 

[Rut]

I`m sorry to hear this I hope everything going better soon

 

[RestoreTheRiver]

We're here for you. Given the support of the forum, I'd also recommend that you see the chaplain at your base. There's just no substitute for sitting down with someone you can trust one on one when you're going through such hard times.

I'll be praying for you, and for your wife.

Michael

 

[SRAMS]

I have talked with the chaplain, but he is extremely busy. Thank you for the advise though.

 

[MamaChris]

I dont have any answers for you but, I am lifting you up in prayer.....As you look around CF, get to know some of the wonderful people here, you will find a family. Check out the mens forum or the Couples forum. There are so many. I know your hurting now, continue to pray and most of all keep Christ first and formost in your thoughts. I am lifting you up.......

 

[DaughterofEve]

Lord, I pray that you help this person with whatever problems that he may have. Let him find the answers he is looking for.
Amen

 

[~A.Pure.Heart~]

Pray and look to the Bible for guidance.

 

[CFfosterANGEL12]

Hello and welcome to CF!

 

[Jesusizthe1]

Welcome to CF!

 

[baruch4]

I dont want to go into great detail, but im 23 in the military and still currently married. I live in Okinawa Japan and just sent my wife home for something horrible she has done to me. I feel like I have no where to turn and I guess im looking for some support. I am a christian, and going through a hard time. I seen this page and felt that this is a good place for me to turn.

welcome to cf

 

[MrFreshdew]

hi SRAMS
welcome and have fun

 

[lelamarie]

Be encouraged, brother. You must be feeling really bad right now Nothing hurts like being hurt by your spouse. It is good that you are reaching out to your christian brothers and sisters.
I know it may be hard right now, but the most important thing for you to do is seek the Lord to help you through this time. You are at a vulnerable state. But you know what, you are reaching out. Its important that you plug in somehow at church if you can.
you may be in pain right now but know that our God is a healer of the broken hearted. This may be an opportunity for you to get closer to God.
I hope that helps some.

 

[RandomSock]

Hi!
I am sorry you are feeling bad,and you are having marrital problems.
There is a forum here,dealing with marriage and also fellowship forums you could share your story in,and get support,advice and comfort hopefully.

I don't know your situation,but being away from home,and feeling betrayed by your wife is a very dificult cros to bear alone.I hope your marriage can get saved,and you will find a way to deal with the problem,and eventualy forgive your wife.

 

[PrincessSED]

Welcome!

God Bless!

Praying for you!