Never dated

[MacFall]

We have a thread for people who have never had a boyfriend or girlfriend.

But this thread is for us slightly more hardcore singles who have never even been asked out on a date, nor had anyone we asked out accept. At least we can know we're not alone!

 

[lordworshipper]

I've never been on a date, nor was asked out, but it wasn't my choice. I'm forced to be celebate, as I don't want to sin.

 

[Dzhessika]

I've never been asked out or been on a date some day I hope to experience what it's like even if its just once heck I'd even kiss a frog if that's what it took.

 

[MacFall]

I've never been on a date, nor was asked out, but it wasn't my choice. I'm forced to be celebate, as I don't want to sin.

Dating doesn't have to lead to sex, you know. Unless it leads to marriage, in which case it kind of should lead there.

 

[PinkSweetart]

*serious voice* I am one of the many whom has never been on a date nor asked, nor anything that involves dating.

Do I mind? Eh, there are times when I wish I could go to the movies with someone other then my sister or mom. I don't have many friends, or I would ask them.
But it's also more than the movie thing. Oh, well... it'll happen eventually. If not, I'll live.

 

[Xeno32]

Never been on a date before...

I don't really mind either, you cant miss something you never had?

 

[Blank123]

I have never been on date too

you've never been on a date, you have crushes, and yet you're married.

interesting.

 

[.Mikha'el.]

*joins the club*

 

[Rhye]

you've never been on a date, you have crushes, and yet you're married.

interesting.

I have a feeling, he doesn't know the settings very well.

 

[AllForJesus]

Not to date was one of the most fruitful decision i ever took

 

[Super Kal]

never been on a date either, neither been asked out, nor had anyone accept the offer

 

[ks777]

Wow, that's odd. I'm sure everyone here is an awesome person that heaps of people would like to be with. It must come with just maybe being rejected once or twice and losing all your confidence to approach someone again. I guess I haven't really been out on an official one on one date either, so I guess this applies to me too. There's been girls who've asked me out, but I'm such an idiot I always said no just because I had the mindset "I'm not going to go out with anyone I can't imagine marrying (just because it leads to an inevitable break-up)" which is ridiculous. Just because I wasn't in love with them when they asked me out I said no. *sigh* Now I know dates are just a cool way of getting to know someone, going on a date doesn't mean you're now in a relationship.. In High school if someone asked you out and you said yes, you two were automatically considered girlfriend boyfriend which I didn't like.

Come to think of it, I don't think I've ever asked someone out on a date before.. I was close once, I was just going to see if this chick wants to come have a coffee after class lol I must have a fear of rejection??

 

[Janetlove]

Never been on date! I get asked out by horrible guys, so I don't count that. I've learned to enjoy my own company. Is it painful sometimes, yes! But overall I feel blessed. I don't want to date just to date. I want my first date to be with someone special. Also I think part of me is turned off from dating because some how sex was added into the dating process. You know the third date rule!!! This is even happening amongst us Christians!

 

[MacFall]

It must come with just maybe being rejected once or twice and losing all your confidence to approach someone again.

Try about 20 times and you'll be on the right track. I used to have lots of confidence. It took an awful lot to leach it out of me. Seems like it's taking as much to put it back in.

 

[Rivella]

I haven't been on a date since I became a Christian.
I was asked out a few times but either by non-Christians or Christians I couldn't imagine being with.

 

[crishmael]

I'm in this club. Hoping that will change very soon.

 

[toastface_grillah]

Try about 20 times and you'll be on the right track. I used to have lots of confidence. It took an awful lot to leach it out of me. Seems like it's taking as much to put it back in.

Whoa man, what happened?

Oh, me? *turns and looks* Have I been on a date? No.
Have I been out to coffee and/or dinner with members of the opposite sex? Yes. Was it prearranged? Sometimes.

 

[Squeakers]

Nope...never been on a date before.

 

[MacFall]

Whoa man, what happened?

If I could figure that out, it might not have been so many failures.

 

[LadyL]

I don't consider myself to ever have been on a date, I technically never was asked out, either...

Asking for my phone# is not asking out on a date, also do not like the general concensus of "dating". So yeah, I'm cool with it.