So what? Is God going to condemn anyone who says that Mary was the mother of Jesus Christ the Son of man? If He does I will be condemned.
Of course Mary is the Mother of Jesus Christ, the Son of Man. Who has said otherwise? But the Bible also asserts clearly that Jesus Christ is more than a Man, He is God Incarnate:
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. (...) And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, -- Jn 1:1,14
Every spirit which confesseth that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh, is of God: And every spirit that dissolveth Jesus, is not of God -- 1Jn 4:2-3
The proposition that Jesus Christ is not God in the flesh is a condemned proposition. Who God condemns is up to Him, particular judgments are hidden decrees.
The Jehovah Witnesses rewrite Jn 1:1 to say that the Word is
a god, that is to say, a sort of demigod. But I would hope that you affirm the Christian proposition that Jesus Christ is God Incarnate.
When the angel told Mary she was to become with child by the Holy Spirit what was her response? "Luke 1:38, "And Mary said, Behold the handmaid of the Lord; be it unto me according to thy word." She was simply being obediant to God like we all should be.
Exactly. Mary was and is perfectly obedient to God. Through Her "fiat" ("fiat mihi secundum verbum tuum" -- "be it unto me according to thy word"), She became the Mother of God. Jesus said the "first shall be last, and the last shall be first." (Mt. 19:30) God rewards humility and obedience. Even though Jesus Christ was God from all eternity, Paul writes in his letter to the Church in Philipi, that:
Who being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God: But emptied himself, taking the form of a servant, being made in the likeness of men, and in habit found as a man. He humbled himself, becoming obedient unto death, even to the death of the cross. For which cause God also hath exalted him, and hath given him a name which is above all names: That in the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those that are in heaven, on earth, and under the earth: And that every tongue should confess that the Lord Jesus Christ is in the glory of God the Father. -- Phil. 2:6-11
That is to say that Jesus, who is already "equal with God (the Father)", as the Second Person of the Holy Trinity, humbled Himself (condescended) to become Man, to take on the human nature.
For that reason, for his humility, God the Father raised Him back up and He was glorified all the more. The Incarnation was "for us and for our salvation" (Nicene Creed) but fundamentally, for the greater glory of God. God rewards humility.
And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be humbled: and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted. -- Mt. 23:12
The Virgin was humblest of the creatures of God. She was fully "hidden with Christ in God" (Col 3:3). For this reason, she was raised above all the creatures of God and crowned Queen of Heaven (Apoc. 12:1). Did not the God of the Universe get down on His knees and wash the disciples feet? Did He not humble Himself at every possible moment? Jesus, God Almighty, calls Himself "meek, and humble of heart" (Mt. 11:29). Because of His humility and obedience, God the Father raised God the Son, Jesus Christ, back up to His full glory and "gave Him a Name which is above all names" . Because of Her humility and obedience, God raised the Blessed Virgin up to Heaven, body and soul, and glorified Her as Queen of Heaven.
Are we to bow down or worship or serve Mary? No according to Exodus 20:4 and 5. These are reserved for God alone.
Thou shalt not make to thyself a graven thing, nor the likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or in the earth beneath, nor of those things that are in the waters under the earth. Thou shalt not adore them, nor serve them: I am the Lord thy God, mighty, jealous, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children, unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me:
The Mother of God is a stone idol, a pagan goddess? You have me quite confused there. There is no conflict in Heaven, Mary and Jesus aren't tallying up scores for everything that Mary has is from Jesus and everything that Jesus gives passes through the hands of Mary. Mary is fully God's handmaid and God subjects Himself to Mary.
"Latria" is worship reserved for God. Mary is not God, therefore veneration of the saints is "dulia" and Mary as greastest of the saints receives "hyperdulia". Our joy is not what Mary has done for Herself but what God has done for Her:
"Because he that is mighty, hath done great things to me; and holy is his name." -- Lk. 1:49
If we admire a sunset or the Grand Canyon, the Pacific Ocean or a newborn child, our joy is in God who created those things and how they reflect Him. Mary is the perfect Mirror of God ("Speculum iustitiae" - "Mirror of justice", in the Litany of Loreto). She is the Moon, who reflects the light of God. We who are children of Mary serve Her because, through Her, we can more perfectly serve Jesus Christ.
If then we are establishing sound devotion to our Blessed Lady, it is only in order to establish devotion to our Lord more perfectly, by providing a smooth but certain way of reaching Jesus Christ. If devotion to our Lady distracted us from our Lord, we would have to reject it as an illusion of the devil. But this is far from being the case. As I have already shown and will show again later on, this devotion is necessary, simply and solely because it is a way of reaching Jesus perfectly, loving him tenderly, and serving him faithfully.
-- St. Louis Marie de Montfort, "True Devotion to the Blessed Virgin"