SoC
Soldier of Christ
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My only question is this...
Who is the focus of the relationship, the two of you or God?
If it's you two, then everything you do together will probably feel "right."
I remember a something I read in a Star Wars book once. They were warning a padawan about the dangers of the Dark Side. They said something to the effect of "It won't feel like it's wrong. It will feel like the most right thing you've ever done."
Now, I'm not saying that this relationship is wrong or sinful. I'm merely trying to get you to examine your relationship in the light of God and His standards. If you can honestly say that God is the center of the relationship and that he is being honored, great! If not, it would be best to either put Him in the center of the relationship or to break it off.
The fact that you have been seeing him without your parents knowledge makes me think that God's not where He should be in the relationship.
Honestly, though, it's kinda creepy (to me) thinking about a 39 year old and an 18 year old together.
Who is the focus of the relationship, the two of you or God?
If it's you two, then everything you do together will probably feel "right."
I remember a something I read in a Star Wars book once. They were warning a padawan about the dangers of the Dark Side. They said something to the effect of "It won't feel like it's wrong. It will feel like the most right thing you've ever done."
Now, I'm not saying that this relationship is wrong or sinful. I'm merely trying to get you to examine your relationship in the light of God and His standards. If you can honestly say that God is the center of the relationship and that he is being honored, great! If not, it would be best to either put Him in the center of the relationship or to break it off.
The fact that you have been seeing him without your parents knowledge makes me think that God's not where He should be in the relationship.
Honestly, though, it's kinda creepy (to me) thinking about a 39 year old and an 18 year old together.
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