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just saw this thread. I am praying for you too, undercoveremo

I was diagnosed with PTSD 3 yrs ago after leaving my abusive (now ex) husband.
I was on meds for a while, I had nightmares and flashbacks. With time they have diminished. I still have nightmares once in a while, but it is definitely improved.

Feel free to talk about anything here, and message me privately any time.
Hugs and prayers
 
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My counselor taught me to do some grounding techniques for when I have flashbacks. They help some. But sometimes it's hard for me to even tell when I am in a flashback.
Anyway she said to try to have something to concentrate on that you like for when you have a flashback. I chose to talk to my birds and Jesus while having them. I found it helps some, that is when I can tell I'm in a flash back. I am still praying for you dear one. God bless you always.
 
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just saw this thread. I am praying for you too, undercoveremo

I was diagnosed with PTSD 3 yrs ago after leaving my abusive (now ex) husband.
I was on meds for a while, I had nightmares and flashbacks. With time they have diminished. I still have nightmares once in a while, but it is definitely improved.

Feel free to talk about anything here, and message me privately any time.
Hugs and prayers


Thankyou very much for your message. I was also in a violent relationship and its horrible. I hate sleeping cause of the nightmares and i jump at every noise.
 
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No, it's not God punishing you. You have an illness and it's giving you an awful terrible time. Have you thought of going to the hospital? Just an idea, it's up to you, of course. I am praying for you and I care a lot. I suffered without medicine for a long time with PTSD and I can relate to you so much. It's like flashbacks while awake and nightmares when you sleep and depression much of the time, that's what my life was like. I still get flashbacks and nightmares but with the medicine they are more managable. Please keep writing.
 
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what happened for you to start recovering or noticing any difference? Last night i woke in the middle of the night and thought i was being tortured. took me ages to remember where i was. i have been to the hospital before and they sent me home. the mental health section is very stretched here. its terrible for many people.
 
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I'm praying to Jesus for you. Jesus loves you no matter what and would never get tired of you. You are his precious child and he wants you to feel better. I have been isolating to heal the physical and emotional pain I have. It helps and I feel sometimes it's good for me. The world can be such an overwhelming place.
 
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