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need some insight

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Messy, I am sorry for the chaos in your life. Let's climb above this for a moment and I want you to clear your head of all the confusion. Now, meditate in the prescence of God who loves you and your children. Let Him speak to your heart. He has blessed you with your family. Now, take this chaos and bracket this as you think about God's will for you and your family. As you think about your life in God's will, you will see that the period in your life when things fell apart may have been while you were most vunerable, perhaps post-partum depression, hormone imbalances etc. You were definitely in no condition to be making life changing decisions. I would reconsider these decisions that you made under duress, i.e. getting married, is this marriage valid? When reassessing this, remember, the well being of your children comes first. If you make this your priority, with God's help, you will then begin to make good choices.
 
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Messy

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For the ones who read the original post, it's getting better and I thank the Lord that He can use him in order for me to get rid of the anger, irritation and unbelief.
He stopped with the drugs. Thanks for praying. I'll let you know when he's saved.
 
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