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Originally posted by psycmajor
Why did you break up? What do you miss about him? What DON'T you miss about him? What would God think if you continued a relationship with him?

Could you clarify? You're still young, so don't despair about being single.

well we broke up because he tought he wasnt ready and i said it was taking me to much of my time...we went off on good terms and are still friends. well things i dont miss about him...his well you know how guys can be sometimes.
 
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Originally posted by brian_z_babe


well we broke up because he tought he wasnt ready and i said it was taking me to much of my time...we went off on good terms and are still friends. well things i dont miss about him...his well you know how guys can be sometimes.

I...umm...I caught some of that; could you rephrase that?
 
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Originally posted by psycmajor


I...umm...I caught some of that; could you rephrase that?

we broke up because he said he wasnt ready for a realtionship like ours(very serious) and I agreed it was taking up to much of my time. As all my chicky friends say...so many men so little time...you gotta get to the all!lol.
 
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Sometimes it is hard to see ahead when you are not seeing things clearly. Trust is the key as the other ones have suggested. If Brian is not the one for you and you spend your time wishing he was then you are in a sense hindering God from sending you the right one. It will be alright. And when the time is right you will see things for what they were. A learning experience meant for you to learn something.
 
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