need help

[skinnybrad]

hey guys and girls i am brad and i need your advice


I have a girlfriend even though we arent technically dating or going out untill next year i know she is the one for me and she knows the same, but the other night in bed i was thinking when we get married i will be the first person in my whole entire family history to marry an Asian girl and she will be the first to marry a white guy and what i wanna know is how do we tell our parents?

any responses would be gratefully received thanks

 

[tyberium]

Personally parents are great, but if this girl is a christian she meets the only requirement set by God for a spouse. So if she is good enough for God then she is good enough for your parents. Dont worry how they react. The are your parents and they love you so they will love her. My GF is Porto Rican and I am the first in my family not to marry a white girl, but who cares. Just dont get involved in those carnival games that let you know what your kids are gonna look like. A face only a mother could love is all that I will say, but seriously. Marriage is between You, Your Spouse, and God. Keep it that way and you will be a success.

Becides lets get past the first date before we start talking about marriage.

 

[skinnybrad]

thanks buddy but i know ill go out with her soon as i see her in 4months (not counting down or anything

 

[unjustwar]

thats awesome! you will make very cute babies... haha. I'm asian and my love is with a white/mexican girl. asian/white babies are the best

 

[skinnybrad]

hahahah if they look anything like her they will be cute so maybe i should do some scientific testing to see if i can find out how i can create kids that dont have anything to do with me

 

[bliz]

Give the folks maximum time to get accoustomed to the idea.

When people think about who their children will marry and what they grandchildren will be like, they envision people who look like themelves. That does not make them racists or unaccepting; it's just what they imagine. So the more time they have to readjust their thinking, the smoother things are likely to go.

I think this was in a TV show or a movie... an Asian/white couple were discusing their marriage and the white guy remembered how her family was quite cold if not downright hostile toward him until the wedding reception when her grandmother stood beside him, and held his hand, and talked to the whole family (in Korean) and at the end of her speech, they nodded and were far more accepting. "Yes," said his wife, "I remember, but what you didn't know was that she explaioned to the family that she agreed that it was awful that I was marrying you, but at least you weren't blonde."