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I need advice right now. I still feel depressed, but I feel it passing with time. I want to get on with my life. I'm ready to start right here and move on. But, I'm not sure which direction to proceed in. I would like a different perspective, or perhaps some encouragement, based in truth. Encouragement is good, but I also need truthful advice. I think I worry too much as well, but I can't help it...this is how I feel right now. Anyways, I'm ready to go back to college and finish up my credit hours...then maybe attend a larger university in my general area. I'm also (hopefully) getting a job soon (tomorrow) to help with finances and whatnot. I'm wondering if this is a good, realistic step for me right now in my life. I feel like it is, but as usual in my life I'm uncertain about it. I would like some certainty in my life...lol I'm ready to just GET ON WITH IT!! lol My mind lately has been...wandering...unfocused. I'm working on that as well. I feel much better and a little more focused. Anyways, no one can know my personal situation, but if I can give advice to other people on here, then maybe someone out there has some general advice for me as well. Thanks everyone!

I also found this link for suffers of depression: http://www.trans4mind.com/personal_development/FeelingGood/CalmEyes.html
It helped me a lot with just calming my mind and whatnot.
 

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Hey there RSteel.

You seem to be someone who has a bit of a handle on your depression, which is a great thing.

You say you want to get on with your life, that's a really good sign since you're not wanting to sink deeper in at this point. I know you don't know which way to go, but there's only one direction and that's forward. If you feel confused about this or that, just start doing what you know, one step at a time. Don't let the big things get in the way of everything else. So try to keep it simple.

I'd like to suggest that you go and try to help others with whatever you can. It builds love, which is what will light your way, and it will help keep yourself off of yourself.

Oh and read the gospel every day for sure and remember that Jesus is real, He is here, and He will teach you if you are willing.

God Bless!
 
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I will tell you what i tell my children You CAN do whatever you put your mind to doing. If you need help with depression please go get it. There is help out there. I have confidence in you!!!!


RSteel said:
I need advice right now. I still feel depressed, but I feel it passing with time. I want to get on with my life. I'm ready to start right here and move on. But, I'm not sure which direction to proceed in. I would like a different perspective, or perhaps some encouragement, based in truth. Encouragement is good, but I also need truthful advice. I think I worry too much as well, but I can't help it...this is how I feel right now. Anyways, I'm ready to go back to college and finish up my credit hours...then maybe attend a larger university in my general area. I'm also (hopefully) getting a job soon (tomorrow) to help with finances and whatnot. I'm wondering if this is a good, realistic step for me right now in my life. I feel like it is, but as usual in my life I'm uncertain about it. I would like some certainty in my life...lol I'm ready to just GET ON WITH IT!! lol My mind lately has been...wandering...unfocused. I'm working on that as well. I feel much better and a little more focused. Anyways, no one can know my personal situation, but if I can give advice to other people on here, then maybe someone out there has some general advice for me as well. Thanks everyone!

I also found this link for suffers of depression: http://www.trans4mind.com/personal_development/FeelingGood/CalmEyes.html
It helped me a lot with just calming my mind and whatnot.
 
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