My sister confided something in me that I'd like some anonymous opinions about.
Recently her son, who is 15 now, admitted to "touching" his sister, who is now 12. They were 11 and 8 at the time. He only did it once, and says he apologized to her. He says it has never been talked about between them since.
He has been carrying this secret all this time.
The young girl has not said anything to anyone. She does not know anyone knows.
They seem to have a great, normal relationship with each other.
What should they do?
If they see a psychologist/pastor, would that psychologist or pastor be compelled to report? Would a psychologist/pastor have the option to report?
Should they bring this up to the daughter? She has not told anyone.
Both kids have some signs, and have had signs for a while, that there might be some stress in their lives. Of course no one would have guessed this was the source. Professional help is a great idea, but my sis/BTL don't know how to proceed. They want to act, but are afraid since its possible that doing the wrong thing might be worse than doing nothing.
I'm at a loss. I know my sister must be desperate to confided something like this with even me.
Recently her son, who is 15 now, admitted to "touching" his sister, who is now 12. They were 11 and 8 at the time. He only did it once, and says he apologized to her. He says it has never been talked about between them since.
He has been carrying this secret all this time.
The young girl has not said anything to anyone. She does not know anyone knows.
They seem to have a great, normal relationship with each other.
What should they do?
If they see a psychologist/pastor, would that psychologist or pastor be compelled to report? Would a psychologist/pastor have the option to report?
Should they bring this up to the daughter? She has not told anyone.
Both kids have some signs, and have had signs for a while, that there might be some stress in their lives. Of course no one would have guessed this was the source. Professional help is a great idea, but my sis/BTL don't know how to proceed. They want to act, but are afraid since its possible that doing the wrong thing might be worse than doing nothing.
I'm at a loss. I know my sister must be desperate to confided something like this with even me.