so to start before my wife and I got married durning the engagement she was sending pics of her self to another man.( pics only a husband should see)
She told me about it asked for my forgiveness and I forgave her. So we got married and are headed to 4 years of marriage in June. This last weekend she made out with another man. He was druck and remembered it all and even told me she wanted it to happen. She also asked me to forgive her and move on like nothing happened. I told her even though it was making out only according to what she said, I'm still hurt and I'll need some time to process this. 2 days latter she's nagging me about how it's my fault it happened and that she needs me to forgive her. I kind of have but I'm riding the fence on it. She says I'm over reacting. Am I over reacting. I told her we need to do counseling together or this won't work any more she got mad and an hour later agreed to counseling. I'm still very hurt I'm trying my best. I need prayer and support. I'm asking for it here bc I don't want the image of my wife to be tainted if the family knows or friends know. But I'm losing my mind over this.
Greetings
@Rhino521
Brother been there and went through 5 years of it. I almost let it drive me crazy. Then I woke up. Stop listening to her lies and everyone else.
Took all my concerns and gut feelings and what I felt inside to prayer. Spent time with the Father alot. He showed me or gave me confirmation for each and every thing I suspected and showed me I was right.
I had to make a choice right then and there.
Do things His way or my way.
I chose His way and did what He said, friends and my boss told me I was stupid and got kind of mean with me.
Walking in Love and Forgiveness does not set well with many but it is big with God.
She stole my savings, cost me several jobs, pretty much trashed my truck and took my paid off boat and left the one with payments on it. My screen name will tell you that the boat was kind of important running a guide service.
Long story short, divorced and about a month later she begged me to take my boat back the project car and her car and more.
I took my boat and equipment and gave all her stuff to her dad.
I said all that for this.
Don't try to make it through this on your own, for it may destroy your life. Draw close to God and do what He says.
Praying for you
FCJ