I'm glad you're home. I will keep praying for you. You and your wife should find a devotional book to do together. Night Lights by James Dobson is excellent! It starts with scripture, has a one page story, followed by 2 or 3 questions to create some personal discussion, then a prayer to pray together. It's excellent.
Don't get too discouraged when times are tough. There will be good days and bad ones, too. Give her some space. When women try to work on setting things right we often jump right in with both feet. Women are a little more cautious. Be mindful of that.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!