My situation....again

[fieldmouse3]

I just found out that my guy friend is back in town. I don't know how long he's been here, or how long he'll be staying. I do know, though, that he's out with his girlfriend today. That has me pretty upset; I don't know why, but I was kinda hoping they wouldn't be together anymore once he came home for this visit. It just kills me that he hasn't seen the truth yet. I'm in tears over this, and I don't know why. Please join me in praying that he sees the truth about her, and everything that happened.
I know that the Lord is by my side, and I won't be going through this alone. That gives me the confidence i need to go on, but I'd greatly appreciate it if some of you could join me in prayer as well. Any advice you have is welcome, too, of course!

 

[Kristen]

Awww Fieldmouse, I am praying for you and your friend. God bless you.

 

[Blessed-one]

i'll be praying.

 

[amie]

Hi fieldmouse,
I am praying for you. I don't want you to cry, I want you to be a happy little fieldmouse...you are doing what you need to do. Pray. I am glad that you are not getting involved in their breakup, that would just damage your relation with him. I know it is frustrating to see the ones we love make mistakes, but sometimes to sit back and watch them learn is really the best thing. I am praying for and with you always...
Does he know how you feel about him?
Amie

 

[fieldmouse3]

He doesn't know that I still have feelings for him, and I don't think I want him to; unless they break up, she'll just manage to convince him not to have anything to do with me. I don't know what to do....this has been going on for almost a year, and I don't know whether it's God's will that I keep persisting, or if He's been trying to tell me all along that there's never going to be a resolution in this situation, and that this guy will never know the truth. Could this just be a test of patience? I still feel like there's a chance for me, but I could just be telling myself that to avoid feeling worse than I already do.

 

[Mr.Cheese]

If I were you I'd walk away from this one. A year is an awful long time to drive yourself crazy over this. I'd take it one day at a time and put it behind me and leave it be. yeah, it sucks. If God meant for it to be, then it will be. But for now, I'd give it to Him and move on.

 

[Remny]

Hey there... man these kind of things. This has happened to be me before, and it makes me so upset when I think about someone who I know is "bad" going out with someone I'm totally into.

But you know one truth about this person. In the end I bet this guy, he sees another turth about her. Remember there's plenty of horrible things about each and everyone of us. Still God sees our good and loves us. He sees our talents, and hearts, and loves us even though we have bad in us.

That doesn't make it any easier on you. I'll tell you, if this person is a "bad" person or what not. Well, unless she is mended somehow, the relationship will fail in the end. I've seen it happened countless times by now. I don't know what will happen in the end with you guys, but remember there are only like over 3 billion men on the planet... so maybe you like this one, and I'm sure you have good reasons too, but there are like billions and billions left out there, so with those odds, there's a pretty good chance you can find someone even better for you, a very very good chance.

I'll pray you, I really understand how this can be... Simimlar situations have made me rage... though it always works out well in the end.

Good luck,

Benjamin Jeanotte