I am finding that I am once again falling in love you could say, with my ex. I dont want her to know i like her again, and i just want to know, what things should i do or say to make her like me again, but not let her know i like her at the time. Any help would be appreciated, thx, and God bless.
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I_Heart_Jesus777 said:
Well, before you do all that, I would investigate why this person ended up being an "ex" in the first place. Because the probability is, whatever it is someone did to annoy you the first time, unless it's addressed they will most likely do it again.
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YouthPastor
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exactly - why is she an ex?
What has changed since then? How has she changed? How have you changed?
What is going to make "this time" any different than last time?
What has changed since then? How has she changed? How have you changed?
What is going to make "this time" any different than last time?
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She broke up with me because she liked this other guy, but i still like her....i cant seem to get over her. Ive tried to just give up, but the feelings keep coming back. I know she might do the same again, maybe i should just try harder to let her go. Should i just let her go? Or do people change?
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hmm, I don't think I would suggest trying to get back with her right now. If she broke up with you because she was interested in someone else then I would doubt there's enough interest on her part to make a go of a real relationship. And there's really no way to 'make' someone like you. Either they do or they don't. Trying to trick or manipulate someone to like you isn't a great idea either.
It might actually even be a good idea to create some distance between the two of you. Allow yourself some time to get over her and move on with your life
It might actually even be a good idea to create some distance between the two of you. Allow yourself some time to get over her and move on with your life
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I agree with LT,
distance.. and when you make the choice to stop caring you will..
for you.
And by your info you are only 14-- do not mind girls just enjoy life
( we are trouble really)
distance.. and when you make the choice to stop caring you will..
for you.And by your info you are only 14-- do not mind girls just enjoy life
( we are trouble really)
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I_Heart_Jesus777 said:
You can't make her like you - that has to be her decision. Don't waste time playing games like trying to hide your feelings while trying to manipulating hers. It's not going to work.
Just be yourself - work on becoming the person who God wants you to be (and I'd give you that advice regardless of your age). If she likes that person - great. If not, it's no big deal. Lots of other people will like the real you - the you that God has created you to be. And for those who don't like the real you - it's their loss, not yours.
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BlessedJourney said:And by your info you are only 14-- do not mind girls just enjoy life
Yep, so true. If I had only read Proverbs, maybe I would not have my heart broken so many times.
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fishstix said:
i totally agree with her. try not to worry about her or what's going on with her (i know this can be so difficult!) work on yourself and your relationship with God. enjoy your teenage years too! you're only 14. i nanny a girl who's 13, and she's into the dating scene as well. i say, enjoy being a kid while you're a kid. you have the rest of your life to worry about dating and all that jazz. GBU
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