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Recently my family has gone through a lot. With moving, loosing a house. My dads currently inventing a dryer. Which has caused him to put all his money into it. He now thinks time is for rent. My parents are living in a trailer in the mountains. Which they are living off my brothers credit card, which my sister inlaw is against.
I'm currently working at Dairy Queen as a supervisor with talk of me training to become assistant manager. I'm living with my sister. Which I finally am getting my own place move in 24 days. My sister and brother inlaw are driving me insane.

My girlfriend, who I know is the one for me, we are taking about marriage as we are courting. And I'm struggling with saving for the ring I want to get her.
She doesn't know what's come in my past life, the pain in my life. And I know i should open up to her. But she will judge my parents and judge me cause I maybe like my parents.
But I don't want her to find out by my siblings later on and hate me for not saying anything.

I've felt a calling from God to come here, and open up. I've been feeling down lately. And I've found the local churches not helpful, or I'm working to go. The bible study, doesn't help me grow, and the leaders of it judge everyone.

I need help -.- and God sent me here
 

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Lord show your mercy and grace to nemoore and we ask that your new abundant life be given in exchange for all the broken pieces here. Lord you love Nemoore so much and we know you will lead him and guide him to a better place and a brighter future. Cheer him up and send him wise and understanding friends who can help him along the way. In jesus name we pray.
 
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Hello, "NEMoore."

I believe God will not let you down when you turn to him. That the most important thing to keep in mind.

As for what you can do, I think you are right that your girlfriend might be more offended by you holding back than by the actual situation. You could consider letting her in on a few general feelings you have about your family or some small details. I wouldn't think she'd automatically say "He must be like that, too."

We will be praying for you and thank you for coming here.
 
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Bless yer heart, praying that God steadies you, grants you wisdom, discernment, clarity, and that He grants you extraordinary favor in ALL things, brother in CHrist and beloved son of the Most High God.
 
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God has promised to give us wisdom, when we lack it. He will! Just ask him, and believe that you have received it, after you finish praying, and it will come and manifest to you then, or latter, if you believe.

Psalm119:92,93, Psalm 142:2,3, Psalm 68:19, Romans 15:13, Psalm 121:1,3,7, Psalm 50:15, Psalm 34:6,17,18,19, Psalm 69, Psalm 46:1, Psalm 62, Psalm 147:3, 2 Corinthians 1:3-11, 4:16-18, 7:6, 12:8,9,10, Lamentations 3:1-66, Psalm 43:5, Psalm 12:5,Psalm 22:24, Psalm 9:9,12,18, Psalm 119:50, Psalm 42:5, Psalm 86, Psalm 118:5, Nahum 1:7, Job 29:3, Isaiah 25:8, 30:18,19,20, 40:1, 41:10,13,14, Psalm 13, Psalm 81:7, Psalm 94:17, 18,19, Psalm 128, Jeremiah17:7,8, 31:13
 
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Praying!
 
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