"Before we got married,we were not staying together so we used to go out often as that was the only way for us to meet. Now that we are together in the same house, I think he no longer see the need for us to go out anymore e.g. movie night as we can watch at home. So yes I had no idea he would be boring since we were not staying together while in courtship.
I take care of him by cooking, do laundry, complement him, buy him gifts/take him out(though I paused it to see his initiative as well) etc...that's how I make him happy.
I did not say I withdraw from having sex with him voluntarily/willingly....I really want to do it but I have no sex libido(this makes me feel worthless as a wife) and per the research I made, the cause has to do with my hormones and my husband understands my situation and we hope to find professional help after I give birth."
When they marry, many guys stop trying to romance their wives. They have achieved their goal (marrying) and don't think they need to keep working at the romance in the relationship. But that is a surefire way to make a wife feel unloved and sexually disinterested. Since your husband seems to place some importance on his faith, maybe approaching him from a biblical perspective would be helpful. Don't tell him he's not meeting his scriptural obligations to you as a husband, ask him if he thinks he is honoring God in the way he is relating with you. Put your marriage in the spiritual context in which it is supposed to be but remember that you can't change your husband. Only God can make your husband the wise, loving, faithful man God calls him to be. Don't badger your man. Urge him to take the lead in spiritual matters in your relationship. Ask him to lead in a devotional time for you both. Ask him to pray for you both. Ask him to teach you what a biblical marriage looks like. And then pray, pray, and pray some more! Daily in prayer put your man in God's hands and wait patiently on God to transform your husband into a Christlike man. While you wait on God to do so, go deep with God yourself. Be a godly woman. Love God with all of your being. This is the First and Great commandment. When you do, you will see yourself and your marriage transformed and the blessings of God flowing into it.
Proverbs 3:1-8
1 My son (daughter), do not forget my teaching, But let your heart keep my commandments;
2 For length of days and years of life, And peace they will add to you.
3 Do not let kindness and truth leave you; Bind them around your neck, Write them on the tablet of your heart.
4 So you will find favor and good repute In the sight of God and man.
5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And do not lean on your own understanding.
6 In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He will make your paths straight.
7 Do not be wise in your own eyes; Fear the Lord and turn away from evil.
8 It will be healing to your body, And refreshment to your bones.
Congratulations, by the way, on your soon-to-arrive little one!
Selah.