Sparagmos
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- Oct 19, 2018
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Your take on this makes me very sad. Your girlfriend was raped and your more concerned for you own feelings about not being her ‘first’ than you are for her well-being and recovery.I (19m) began a relationship with a girl (20) about 2 months ago and learned shortly after that she had lost her virginity approximately 1 year prior to a man twice her age. I'm saving myself for marriage and had always thought this would be a deal breaker, but the situation sounds like rape. She never spoke to him again after it happened. I feel like I have a great woman and I wanna be with her but lately I feel bitterness over the situation, mostly towards the man that did it. It bothers me that he would be her first, and not me. Perhaps it's a pride issue. Anyways, this plight has weighed heavily upon me and I would be thankful for any productive advice on moving forward.
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